Topic: I have a question about maturity (girls/women only)
pj5834's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:21 PM
Ok, so I am 18, I know thats young, but I am mature way beyond my years. Sometimes I think I was born a decade or 2 to late hahaha. Anyways, I was wondering when you think that girls will stop being "girls" and feel the need for a mature relationship? I have yet to have a relationship because all of the girls I know tell me im to mature and they dont want that yet. I know all girls are different, but a general idea or advice would be awesome!
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Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:25 PM
honestly it all depends on the girls and how they were raised...i know girls at 23 that seem like they should be in highschool still...then there are girls like me and my bestfriend who grew up too quickly and are way too mature for our ages. you just gotta find the right one...it takes time

pj5834's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:28 PM

honestly it all depends on the girls and how they were raised...i know girls at 23 that seem like they should be in highschool still...then there are girls like me and my bestfriend who grew up too quickly and are way too mature for our ages. you just gotta find the right one...it takes time


Yea I know it takes time, its just extremely frustrating to know that I am ready for something mature, and the vast majority, and i mean vast, just want to get drunk and screw...and i'm not about that.

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:31 PM
i know that...guys are just like that...i guess the only advice i can really give is to stop looking for something to come ur way and when u least expect it...something will pop up...i'll admit i'm in a simalar boat...but i take things one day at a time and dont stress too much over it...i know it'll happen when it happens and no amount of worrying stressing or whatever will change that

pj5834's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:33 PM

i know that...guys are just like that...i guess the only advice i can really give is to stop looking for something to come ur way and when u least expect it...something will pop up...i'll admit i'm in a simalar boat...but i take things one day at a time and dont stress too much over it...i know it'll happen when it happens and no amount of worrying stressing or whatever will change that


That's the annoying thing. This sounds so pathetic but I waited all throughout High School (the pathetic sounding part hahaha) and didn't search, I waited for something to come to me or just pop up out of the blue...granted I made more friends, but I am still stuck with empty hands

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:40 PM
its just something u have to deal with...nothing else i can really say right now

pj5834's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:43 PM
yea..i've been patient and will continue being patient its just I know there is a girl out there for me that feels the same way and appeals to me in all manners, and its frustrating knowing I havnt found her yet.