That's why I want to set up a music studio, so I can basically get paid to party, and make music.

Well good luck with that.

Where do you live?I struggle for everything in my life...when i was in my twenties it was all about the party and the boink and it was fabulous..I was happy as hell.Nothing wrong with contentment.

I live in So Cal.

the where do you live wasn't for you hun .you sound like you have your **** together.you need to find some like minded people to hang with.

I'm not much of a party person first off, but then I'm also not completely set on a career choice. I can tell you now that above all else I want to walk a spiritual path and do what is best for me and help out others as much as possible... but there's not exactly a strong field there. It's crammed into peoples heads here that the average person changes jobs X ammount of times before __ age and the unemployment rate is rising and if you're not at the top of your class forget about good paying jobs and if you don't go to college you're done and low paying jobs are worthless... Alcohal is a drug that creates an unnatural high (and later an unnatural low) and for people who are too weak to handle it(one of the many reasons I don't drink) it becomes a great detourant. As a general rule of thumb, people have different views on life. If you asked some of them, they would probably argue that you are wasting your youth and that those who live in the future and forget to experience the present really, in the end, experience neither. You seem like you're doing a pretty decent job living your life to how you want to, the best thing you can do is keep doing that instead of trying to live other peoples' lives. Try to help them if you can but at the end of the day let them deal with their decisions with respect because I doubt you would want them making decisions for you(remember the golden rule).