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You had a friend that calls you all the time and everytime they call you, the first words out of their mouth is about how bad their day is going. They don't say hello or anything, they just say something to the effect of "My life sucks."
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Only YOU can allow yourself to be subjected to their negativity. Happiness is a choice and I choose not to be around negative people.
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You had a friend that calls you all the time and everytime they call you, the first words out of their mouth is about how bad their day is going. They don't say hello or anything, they just say something to the effect of "My life sucks." Tell them to man up and save the depression for when it's really necessary. |
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this explains your disdain for the self-esteem challenged.
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i had one of those. she'd call and she'd start blabbing about herself..for an hour. Never asked how I was, or how my day was going or anything. She'd sit and talk about herself. it was so annoying
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this explains your disdain for the self-esteem challenged. Yea that other thread gave me the idea for this one. |
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I just listen...imma good listener, then I let them know they owe me for breathing down my neck
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tell em like it is be like that sucks you had a bad day but ya need to ask other people hows there is going.
or like tulsa said get rid of the me me me people |
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i had one of those. she'd call and she'd start blabbing about herself..for an hour. Never asked how I was, or how my day was going or anything. She'd sit and talk about herself. it was so annoying That is exactly what this guy does. Never says "Hi, how are you today" just starts talkin about his crappy day. I have had to start telling him that if he can't say something positive I am going to stop answering his calls. |
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You had a friend that calls you all the time and everytime they call you, the first words out of their mouth is about how bad their day is going. They don't say hello or anything, they just say something to the effect of "My life sucks." I'd hang up the phone, and go kick their a**, and ask them if they felt any better. |
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Maybe you are the only person that takes the time to listen.
Maybe they need you. |
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Sounds like my boss When I come home I would love to relax....What would we do without caller ID
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i had one of those. she'd call and she'd start blabbing about herself..for an hour. Never asked how I was, or how my day was going or anything. She'd sit and talk about herself. it was so annoying That is exactly what this guy does. Never says "Hi, how are you today" just starts talkin about his crappy day. I have had to start telling him that if he can't say something positive I am going to stop answering his calls. its awful. you should just start ignoring him. He'll go away. lol |
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I say, "Let's talk about something else for awhile, and get your mind off it."
That works a lot more often than you might think. And if that doesn't work, I can suddenly become very busy with another project. |
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I say, "Let's talk about something else for awhile, and get your mind off it." That works a lot more often than you might think. And if that doesn't work, I can suddenly become very busy with another project. I vote for that! |
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hit the mute button, cuss them out, listen, and when theyre done then say," why hello to you too. my day was great." then they will know. hopefully that you wont take it anymore.
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I say, "Let's talk about something else for awhile, and get your mind off it." That works a lot more often than you might think. And if that doesn't work, I can suddenly become very busy with another project. lex will u become my spirt guide? |
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Change the subject, put that person in a happier place.
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start breathing heavy in the phone letting off screams of pleasure and tell him its just not a good time right now
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start breathing heavy in the phone letting off screams of pleasure and tell him its just not a good time right now haha, like you did me? |
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