Topic: MEN AND WHAT THEY REALLY WANT
ynical's photo
Fri 01/25/08 07:56 PM
thank u 4 sitcking up 4 girls

deltasissy's photo
Fri 01/25/08 08:00 PM
The law of attraction says what we think about and thank about, we bring about. Maybe you are thinking about these men too much and are attracting them into your life repeatedly exactly because you don't want them around. So think about the type of man you do want in your life and start attracting them into your world.

I was having a similar problem, only I was attracting "bad boys" over and over again. Then, when I really thought about it, even though I didn't want a long-term relationship with these bad boys, I did enjoy having fun with them. They made me live life differently for a little while. So I rode it out and when I was no longer having fun with it, they just sort of disappeared.


ynical's photo
Fri 01/25/08 08:03 PM
did u cut&paste that. hope u did

dolphin14's photo
Fri 01/25/08 08:24 PM
Edited by dolphin14 on Fri 01/25/08 08:30 PM
No, what my real problem is that i date guys that tell me one thing when we first start dating and make me fall for them. Then their true selfish ways come out. I am a giver and not a taker and i get taken all the time. The last one i thought was different but he's not.

I want to believe everyone, just cuz i tell the truth.



AaronzDad's photo
Fri 01/25/08 08:30 PM

So why are you attracted to that type?


ynical's photo
Fri 01/25/08 08:30 PM
dont be weak man or girl dont matter a user is a user its not them its u

ynical's photo
Fri 01/25/08 08:31 PM
stop giving stop wanting easy

dolphin14's photo
Fri 01/25/08 08:36 PM


So why are you attracted to that type?




Its not that i am attracted to that type, i have dated all types. I know what i want i after dating them for a while they don't want what they had said in the beginning so i think its me. I want to meet someone that would like to spend time with each other and do things together as a couple. I don't think that is too much to ask.

AaronzDad's photo
Fri 01/25/08 08:46 PM
Ahhh... so it's not that you get into long drawn-out relationships with these guys... it's just that you discover fairly quickly they aren't quite who they claim to be?


Well welcome to the human race. ohwell

Relax, it's not you. It's just the way things are.

I've learned once you get past 30 or 35 most people who are single are that way for a REASON.

You're finding lots of guys like that because there's a LOT OF THEM out there. The ones who are sincere and decent are happily married and in their backyard playing with their kids, not on dating sites.

Just keep plugging along weeding out the losers and looking for the gem in the haystack.



ynical's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:06 PM
or get a young guy like me. if anything 4 sex

hikerchick's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:09 PM

Ahhh... so it's not that you get into long drawn-out relationships with these guys... it's just that you discover fairly quickly they aren't quite who they claim to be?


Well welcome to the human race. ohwell

Relax, it's not you. It's just the way things are.

I've learned once you get past 30 or 35 most people who are single are that way for a REASON.

You're finding lots of guys like that because there's a LOT OF THEM out there. The ones who are sincere and decent are happily married and in their backyard playing with their kids, not on dating sites.

Just keep plugging along weeding out the losers and looking for the gem in the haystack.





what are ya saying, there, Aaronz? That none of us are sincere and decent? Tell me you didn't mean it. sad

ynical's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:15 PM
i agree with ar. i am single cause i am vain, mean,and what ever else i have been called

AaronzDad's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:19 PM


You're finding lots of guys like that because there's a LOT OF THEM out there. The ones who are sincere and decent are happily married...

what are ya saying, there, Aaronz? That none of us are sincere and decent? Tell me you didn't mean it. sad



Umm... Hikerchick? Are you one of the "lots of guys" I'm talking about there? huh

laugh

southern_bee's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:21 PM
lmao maybe shes got her strap on too tight :tongue: laugh flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:23 PM



You're finding lots of guys like that because there's a LOT OF THEM out there. The ones who are sincere and decent are happily married...

what are ya saying, there, Aaronz? That none of us are sincere and decent? Tell me you didn't mean it. sad



Umm... Hikerchick? Are you one of the "lots of guys" I'm talking about there? huh

laugh


no but I extrapolated your thesis..if all the decent guys are married and all the single ones are losers, wouldn't that apply to chicks as well?

ynical's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:23 PM
MAYBE i like u

hikerchick's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:23 PM
Plus you said that most people who are single past 30 or 35 are that way for a reason...

hikerchick's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:24 PM

lmao maybe shes got her strap on too tight :tongue: laugh flowerforyou


laugh laugh

ynical's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:25 PM
YES IT DOES THAT IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN SAYING. we r single because of us not them

southern_bee's photo
Fri 01/25/08 09:27 PM
laugh i like being single,no drama.even though i do what i want when i want even if im dating someone.