My best advice would be DONT LOOK FOR IT, it will find you. And to be a little brutal i have to agree with some of the others, stop the whinging its not an attractive trait, women dont like victims mate.

Never mind them. Mom didn't hug them enough.

The tough guy act is not one you want to follow. A good smiley pic would be nice, but if you worry too much you'll stiffle out your potential, and women can sense if you're trying too hard.


Just RELAX, focus, and take some steps in perveying who you are. Best thing, stop worrying about it and just take some practical steps. Patience will pay off. Just loosen up and have fun here.



PS -They have computer cameras on Ebay for 10 to 15 bucks. snag one up.

How about we go just a wee bit deeper romeo shall we? Maryland? Are you in an isolated area? Any eligible singles? Next up is you personally and your HABITS and TRAITS. Sounds cliche' but does your cologne come on too strong? Are you overbearing on women. Are you constantly turning them off with the romeo\ romantic stuff? Or do the women find you the substitute teacher too closed minded? Too liberal and domineering? Mean? Or do women find you oversensitive and slightly desperate as your thread stereotypically portrays you. Solicitation of self pity threads don't go over very well here and draw ire terribly. Are you stubborn and stuck in your ways? Modern technology is advancing greatly in cameras, computers, and software. Don't you have any freinds? For gosh sakes anyone would be glad to put up some photos. Last but not least...... Do you check your expectations? Is your juliet just plain unobtainable or just too precise she doesn't exist romeo? Let us know. And greetings and welcome from me, the class clown. LHB.

It's not about trying to be a tough guy, I'm saying pretty much what you just said.

I don't know what part of the country you are from but I bought a digital throw away camera for about $9.00 and the processing included a cd. There must be others out ther like that. I have used digital throw aways on three occasions and the pics are good. Let your friends take some pics for you with the throw aways.

Down load images from google for the interim.

Cheers and keep on keepin on.

Ok that is something i will look into, maybe there are some things that are a little overbearing. I think tonight i will start something anew, and pardon me if it seems like whining, but to me its just simply stating facts, there is no crying in beer, there is no crying in baseball and there is no crying in dating. And thank you longhairedbiker, for the welcome, i have been in here for a little while, but i am now starting to open up and witness what jsh is all about.

Didn't pay attention to where the quote originated. Just had the urge to kill it.

See, my equipment is acting all dinosaur like now too. Dang!

Okay Im not normally like this, but Im sick and I tend to get short when Im sick. No scanner, no camera, no camera phone...but youre on line. Either your lying cause you dont want to put a pic up...or you really dont have these things. Im a single mom raising 2 kids off 11$/hr. I have a computer, a camera phone and a digital camera that gets used all the time.

Being a big enough person to post a pidc says alot. I know Im fairly attractive, but Im nothing fantastic. And I wear a size 12 which is NOT what most guys are shopping for in a female. But I have enough self respect to put myself out there. Here I am, like me for me, take it or leave it. Because Im a strong enough person that I dont need someone else to tell me Im wonderful, pretty, smart or whatever. If they choose to...great. If not, I still have me.

Either man up, buy a camera and THEN complainh. Or man up, post a pic and let people take you or leave you for who you are. But if you have low self confidence, dont post a pic then ask people to rate it. People wont attack you in general conversation...they WILL if you ask for it. Like posting about how you cant get a date and how lonely you are. Just be YOU!

Everyone let's welcome our new member romeo with decor, taste, and style. Remember he is new here, a little disoriented, and 6'2" in boots, works out and is very healthy. He could easily beat my ass. Think deeper. He asked a simple question. We were all new here once. I think we could help him. I will be first to hold out a helping hand. Romeo, you have a freind request in your in box. Go to top of page, click on my account, scroll down to freind requests, click on it. Anyone else here HUMAN enough to do the same? Show me what you got people. Whose talkin the talk and whose walkin the walk. LHB!

Well thank you very much biker, i accept your hand in friendship and and appreciative of your hospitality, i will just make sure i look for a joybuzzer in your hand. Kravyn i thank you for your brutal truth and honesty. Truth is i have no problem with putting a pic up and i am probably gonna get my friends to help me with that. I do have a cellphone, just not updated and i go about with whatever i can get. I find it admirable what you do, and you have the complete and utmost of my respect, raising kids cannot be easy, i know teaching kids is not easy so i cannot even fathom what you go through. But i did say i would accept all criticisms and advice, so i appreciate the honesty, it is high up on my list.

thank you for accepting my harshness. Im really not a mean a mean natured person. But I appreciate you taking it with a grain of salt. So many on here ask for feedback and freak out when they dont hear what they want to hear.

Im putting my feverish self to bed. I have to work all day tomorrow and mandatory overtime Sat...ehhhh

Well have a great night of sleep and hope you feel better soon. I am going to ask to add you if you dont mind.

I've been computer and electronics saavy. I OWN my own recording studio. But I was internet illiterate until 9 months ago. I'm still learning. Baby steps. Baby steps. And can you believe I'm stupid enough to admit it? Whoops- don't answer that!

Ahh yes, but admission is the first step of acceptance, like i admit that i can be a little weird and wild and whiny and oops i went to far. But i can still accept me for who i am, and i think that is what my friends can enjoy about me. I will do anything for a laugh, for ex: anyone go to youtube and look for lowell danceoff, and you will see me making an A** of myself dancing, i am lucky i dont break a hip, enjoy and feel free to leave any comments, will accept all.

And if you couldn't tell i am starting to relax a little and being a little of myself.

The more you post and the more you post in others threads the more people get to know you and you them. Great luck romeo.

U are a gentlemen and a scholar, i shall learn much from you biker. Hit the roads runnin my friend

Good move.