Topic: my first date
southern_bee's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:24 PM
so i went and met this really nice guy wish was refreshing but he left everything up to me and its like hes got no personality..im not trying to be mean but i dont wanna have to think of everything.


well at least i tried something new laugh

no photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:26 PM
good for you, if there is a next time, it's his turn to make the plans

southern_bee's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:27 PM
i told him he seems really cool and nice but he needs a lil more personality

no photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:28 PM
maybe his last was very controlling and he doesn't know how to take the reins

polypeasant's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:29 PM
Good for you Southern_bee.

Maybe he was doing his yep nope John Wayne impression. Some guys are like that. Tooth extraction would be easier than getting words out of the silent types.grumble

BigCurt_31's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:29 PM

so i went and met this really nice guy wish was refreshing but he left everything up to me and its like hes got no personality..im not trying to be mean but i dont wanna have to think of everything.


well at least i tried something new laugh

agreed! Nice Job, if you don't succeed try, try, try again!

southern_bee's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:29 PM
im not sure he didnt talk hardly at all..its weird to date a nice guy thats not really crazy but maybe hes too quiet

southern_bee's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:31 PM
i mean hes just dont really have a strong opinion about one thing or another...but ya know its nothing serious so im going to sit back and see where this goes..but at this moment i dont have any strong feelings for him

BigCurt_31's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:32 PM
well, I am sure not the silent type! Hop on this train and you will get the full compliment of services.

laugh devil laugh devil laugh devil laugh devil laugh

southern_bee's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:34 PM
i dont ride any train til i know where the destination islaugh

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:34 PM
^^^ sounds like an offer Bee .. I'd take Curt up on it :tongue:

nonchalantwendy's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:35 PM
Sounds to me like there is no chemistry between you two......

southern_bee's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:37 PM
i means he feels like one mf my guy friends..i dont want to write him off early but ya know what do ya do if ya think hes an awsome person but ya not totally feelin him as a potenial b/f

BigCurt_31's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:37 PM

i dont ride any train til i know where the destination islaugh

well, I have the most darling little 5 year old u ever saw sitting on my lap. I have 100% clean bill of health! O well next please!
happy laugh happy laugh happy laugh happy laugh

southern_bee's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:38 PM
lmao thanks but ill pass :tongue:

Goofball73's photo
Thu 01/24/08 05:51 PM
Love those dudes who can't do crap for themselves...lol. Wait! I thought it was customary for women to tell a man what to do?noway noway laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Yeah! I went there.laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

southern_bee's photo
Thu 01/24/08 07:37 PM

Love those dudes who can't do crap for themselves...lol. Wait! I thought it was customary for women to tell a man what to do?noway noway laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Yeah! I went there.laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


i dont mine at all taking control but gets its annoying taking control all the time!

MicheleNC's photo
Thu 01/24/08 09:38 PM
Bee! Stop thinking! You went out on a date. That is a good thing.

It was just a first date. Put it into perspective. Did you have a nice time? Would you enjoy getting to know him better? If the answers to both are yes, then go out with him a second time. Otherwise, don't worry yourself about it.

Hugs, M

briank66's photo
Thu 01/24/08 10:05 PM

so i went and met this really nice guy wish was refreshing but he left everything up to me and its like hes got no personality..im not trying to be mean but i dont wanna have to think of everything.


well at least i tried something new laugh


ROTF... Well, I assume that HE survived. Apparently he didn't read your posts from last night...and I quote...

"ive always been fascinated by dead bodies and learing what or who killed them and how the body is basically bio degreatable"

Yeah....sign me up for that bout of psychosis... smokin

southern_bee's photo
Thu 01/24/08 10:27 PM


so i went and met this really nice guy wish was refreshing but he left everything up to me and its like hes got no personality..im not trying to be mean but i dont wanna have to think of everything.


well at least i tried something new laugh


ROTF... Well, I assume that HE survived. Apparently he didn't read your posts from last night...and I quote...

"ive always been fascinated by dead bodies and learing what or who killed them and how the body is basically bio degreatable"

Yeah....sign me up for that bout of psychosis... smokin



hey i had a question and i wanted to know it..lmao thankfully hes not a member of this site.i dont know maybe its just me but i dont like quiet people.but before i make a final choice im going to talk to him and get to know him better.