how would you feel if your best friend of 18 years would rather look for or be with a man over even calling you to say hello. how would you feel??? me and her have been thru hell and back, back recently she doesnt want anything to do with me!! how would you feel and what would you do?? would you be offended??

did you do anything to upset her? You can think of at all?

Naw i wouldn't be mad my friends always diseaper for a little bit but they come back around, just like me sometimes i disepear for a little bit my self

it happens so as they get in a fight she'll be calling

Yeah... I have friends that do it.. I just tell them dude i'll talk to ya when it calms down or something

i didnt do anything, i dont know what to think. and my friends disapear all the time, i do it too, but i have friends i run into, then tight friends, ones i keep up with no matter. guess ill just have to wait this one out....

If u have been thru Hell and back.......Your friendship should sustain an explanation.......You deserve one, whether she wants to give it is a different issue........Be prepared to hear what she has to say if she chooses to do so, be also prepared to deal with her silence......Sometimes being a friend also means to let go....Good luck and I hope it works out between you two.

Yeah thats pretty messed up... I dunno maybe the guy she is with is controling or something.. Or maybe she is feeling her clock ticking and thinks she needs to fill that in her life becuase of what the typical thing to do in our society asks for

I think you have answered your own question, and pretty sure the word is "patience" .... patience with your pal, and yuou will be fine .. sometimes people need to just go off, and work it out for themselves ,, ya know ???
Good luck ..

IDK, see what happens.

They get caught up in the relationship and forget about those "outside" friends. I mean friends that are not mutual between her and the man. Just keep calling and saying "whats up". I could tell her that this type of behavior is actually bad for her relationship but she wouldn't listen right now. We all need to keep our friends that are outside the relationship. Of course we do not spend as much time but it is still important to keep them.

If it is important to you, make sure to keep contact every now and then. If not then let it go.

Start seeing the guy she's talking to. Then when she calls him, you answer the phone and BINGO back in communication

Its called "life"....i know...it sucks but it happens....dont worry..she will be back!