Topic: First Impressions
Sillypants's photo
Mon 01/21/08 03:11 PM
What is your opinion of someone living at home? I moved back in with my parents about a year ago after a split with my fiance and it appears to be a HUGE turnoff. I know I always judged guys that lived at home...before it happend to me. embarassed

ladyblack67's photo
Mon 01/21/08 03:12 PM
one of 2 things:
1)hes a looser
2) hes having some trouble

sexxyandsingle's photo
Mon 01/21/08 03:12 PM
Takes 7 seconds to make a first impression, naw funk it who cares i lived wiht my parents whole way threw collage and i still have parties at my house and my parents dun care if there fealing froggy they'll come do shot with us drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

BizarreKelley's photo
Mon 01/21/08 03:12 PM
I think it depends alot on the circumstances, and the setup they have with their parents. I've had friends who've lived with their parents (and have talked to guys who do), but they can come and go as they please, and it isn't a big deal. But I've also had relationships with guys who let their parents control what they do, just like when they lived there as a teenager, and that's not cool. So I just try to find out more about the circumstances first.

soxfan94's photo
Mon 01/21/08 03:13 PM
Depends on the situation. Is it temporary? If it is just a quick fix and seems like the girl is working towards being out on her own before too long, then it's not a deal breaker or anything. If the girl is obviously mooching off her parents and not working towards getting out, then that's no good.

no photo
Mon 01/21/08 03:17 PM
Edited by NatalieHalla on Mon 01/21/08 03:18 PM
I had to move back home with my parents after my Divorce, my baby and I had nowhere else to go, if a guy finds it sexy for me t be living under sum bridge like a TROLL with my baby unfead and uncleaned rather than at home where i can get on my own two feet thats his problem..if a guy likes you that s*** dont matter, screw him~ or them!

AaronzDad's photo
Mon 01/21/08 03:18 PM
Just don't put that much info in your profile. Let 'em assume you're living alone. (I'm assuming you haven't put this in your profile... ?)

Once you get talking to a guy you can explain the situation. If he's worth his salt he'll understand and just roll with it - if he has fits you know he's not worth your time.

Now if you're still living with mommy and daddy five years from now you need to rethink your situation... huh

Totage's photo
Mon 01/21/08 03:19 PM

What is your opinion of someone living at home? I moved back in with my parents about a year ago after a split with my fiance and it appears to be a HUGE turnoff. I know I always judged guys that lived at home...before it happend to me. embarassed


Well, if it's short-term, under a year or so to get back on your feet after a divorce, disaster, etc. it's understandable.

lonelyshorty's photo
Mon 01/21/08 03:21 PM
It depends. IF they are a bum with no job trying to get a woman, then its a huge turn off. If they are living with them temporary or if they are living with their parents while they are in college to save money, then its alright.