Ok look I am going to tell you just like I told my son. He was anti-social just like you say you are. UNTIL you grow up and take on your own responcibilties you are pretty much stuck under your parents thumb..if you don't like it then grow up. The best thing for you to do is start tucking your money back from your job, don't spend it unless you have to. I made my son save atleast 50% of his wages, even if he had to be home on the weekends he still saved it.
After high school the best thing for you to do is move in a dorm, this gives you the chance to finally grow up. You then will become a social butterfly..trust me, you will be very happy to get away from your parents and be on your own. Your main focus needs to be your education and you really need to plan out your career!! Sit down with your school counselor and figure out where you want to be when you are done with school. What do you really want out of life? Don't worry about women right now...your focus has to be school.
Get on the ball and start doing this NOW or you will never meet your dead line. ALL of these things should have already been started. Good luck

YES YOU SHOULD .. read my other post on your other topic ..

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/71263?page=4

Here are some traits that most women find attractive:

- Confident
- Humorous
- Positive
- Social
- Adventurous
- Intelligent
- Romantic
- Caring/Loving

You know what the good news is? Most of those traits can be LEARNED. Some people born natural with them but some don't. Since you aren't natural, go learn to become that MAN and you'll be out of your shell FOREVER.

rock on with your badself !

Get yourself a car, then get yourself your own place. Help yourself, don't rely on anyone else, and don't wait for someone to help you.

all you need is a nutcracker