I have so much going on,
i jsut don't know...
i just wish i could talk to someone
and jsut vent everything to them
all those little things going on in my mind..

but..there is also the fact..
i don't trust anyone..
i wish tehre was someone i could just
vent to
that i feel 100% comfortable with

you knwo waht i mean?

So start venting....let it all out sista!

The JSH family will listen and help if we can.

why vent and dwell on the negative when you can move onto something FUN?

I feel the same way sometimes. Try to open up people will help.

to me, the negitive is stuck in my mind

Life is about good and bad. I don't trust people who always say everything is wonderful.

Becca, there are plenty of good guys who will like to hear you talk to them about whatever is on your mind. Try to find one that you can begin to feel comfortable talking to.

venting is not necessarily dwelling its releasing and sometimes we have to release in order to go on ..so lay down on the couch and let the resident docs hear the problems ..i do have a phd you know..

if i told people what i though id have a white jacket and really good meds

get a journal

we're all confused

dont trust ppl who always say everything is wonderful? pffft.

Everything IS wonderful if you choose to see it that way. I'll admit I'm not at that level because that's like f*cking enlightenment status, but I know better than to let the scum of negativity pollute my head.

Look, man. If you focus your energies on the negative, you are only going to manifest more and more of that negative in your life. Then, you'll think about more negative sh!t, then you will experience more negative sh!t, and it becomes a perpetual negative sh!t cycle. Negativity is a self fulfilling prophecy.

Sure, I think about negative things, but it's mostly to objectively judge how I can solve the problem so that it becomes a positive ASAP.

I have learned from PhDs in Positive Psychology and it's a fairly new and overlooked field. The attitude of its information is oftentimes contradtictory to "standard" views in psychology. I'm not exactly in the position to challenge you, tombraider, since I am only an undergrad trying to double major in psychology/sociology with a minor in philosophy, but I will say that I have read sources that claim venting to be something that only amplifies the negative emotions involved.

what happened to the penises?

they are huddled in another room fighting over who has the biggest . . . truck....lol

Becca.......come to the diary........we will listen!

hey !

Becca........what do you want to do with your life??? what can you change to make your life better??? What will make you happy?>

try ur fam...

Becca......if you need to talk.....lemme know........Im a cool mom.......but I dont take no crap either and I will tell it like it is........

Sometimes its better to get a perspective from someone other than your family........good luck!