I am a shy guy and always wanting a girl since my freshman year in high school and i never can go up and be myself for once i always got to be scare

so, no offense intended, but grow some balls?
Whats the worse that could happen, she could say no and slap you?
then you could press charges. and move on to the next girl.

if ya want something ya got to go after it

Throughout High School I was very scared to talk to girls, I had a few girls talk to me and ask me out, but I usually turned them down for stupid reasons.

What's going to happen is you're going to meet a girl and instantly feel comfortable around her, and you'll know she's the one for you. You need to keep your head up and heart open bro.

It's all about the attitude. They need you...you don't need them..... Words to live by....

Well it's always best to be yourself. A lot of people try way too hard to be all suave and crap, and then they just get laughed at when they aren't looking. I've witnessed it many times. It's very funny.

go for it

problem?

Just move on.

Just be yourself. It will all fall into place.

Hey Heels, one thing to know is that surely not every girl is going to be attracted to you, but I found that most of them will at least appreciate you talking to them. You're a nice looking guy, so I suggest you be more aggressive and go and talk to these girls. Like it was said, worst case scenario she might get mad, but usually she won't even do that unless you're rude or obnoxious. If you find a girl who seems to want to carry on a conversation, it's a good indication that she doesn't mind talking to you. If she looks away or goes back to what she was doing, she might be shy or not that interested. If she turns around and looks back at you, she's probably interested.

I wish that the dating/mating game was simple, but sooner or later, you just gotta get up the nerve and talk to a girl or two that you are interested in. Try to tell yourself that you deserve to have a girlfriend just like anyone else, that might make it easier.

its natural to fear the approach.
women don't know this, but for men, approaching a beautiful woman is just as frightening as jumping out of a plane. It sparks the same terrifying adrenaline rush in the sympathetic nervous system because it's evolutionarily hard-wired into the male gene.

That doesn't mean you cant do anything about it, though. Nature does not completely dictate Nurture.

Go take a walk downtown and say "hi" to every female you pass by.