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Topic: Broken Hearts
alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Wed 01/16/08 09:41 PM
Have you ever cared for someone so much and you really thought that they were the perfect match for you, that you just dumped your whole heart and soal into caring for them only to find out that everyone and everything else in the world was more important to them than you? Well, thats where Im at. Its not like i havent had many relationships before,Ive been married before, and have three kids by two different women,and I never felt this way before. We broke up right before New Years and i cant really get over it.I guess time heals all wounds,but its hard to go out and have a good time when you have a broken heart. peace all!!! Man, be glad you can take that risk! Each time.

lonelyshorty Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 4737	Wed 01/16/08 09:41 PM
sad day man

justkev08 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1897	Wed 01/16/08 09:41 PM
Good advice here Bro. Welcome

cutiepie232008 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 1	Wed 01/16/08 09:43 PM
I just got called a whore by a guy it broke my heart

cdanny47 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2328	Wed 01/16/08 09:58 PM
If you haven't been their you can't understand,,, It's a fight between love and hate,,,,, I have found alot of people who are very cold,,,,, They put on the act,,,, They always wait for what they think is better and then they are gone,,,,, Just know your soul is intact and your honesty,,,,,The best to you and don't give up.....Danny

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Wed 01/16/08 09:59 PM
did some one say ho,,,,,,,,wheres my check book,,,,,,,,,wheres my credit cards,,,,,or is this a cash only thingy,,,,,,,,,,lol,,,,,,,,but after all thes people have saported ya,,,,,,,,,,they ant much left to say,,,,,exceptit take a new hart to mend a broken hart,so they are some really nice women an men on this site,,,i don't no many of them,,,,,,,but u can tell they will all saport ya,,,,,,,,,,,,so hang in with us an enjoy

Barbielou49 Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 79	Thu 01/17/08 02:34 PM
Have we all cared for someone with our whole being only to be smashed. It seems we have all been there. It just happened to me...He said I was the answer to his prayers....3 months into the relationship I gave my heart completely after he tore my guards down. We always laughed had fun. Talked. 6 weeks before I found out, he went back to the internet and started dating behind my back...I caught him...I broke up with him 2 days after New Year's. I did the breaking...I hurt...He did not even flinch...Why?

kikitomatoes Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 292	Thu 01/17/08 02:37 PM


whatupgangsta Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 1462	Thu 01/17/08 02:57 PM
i you so much

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Thu 01/17/08 03:02 PM
Been there, done that! It sucked!!!

misty_57 Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 1618	Thu 01/17/08 03:08 PM
In the same boat

cojackstraw Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/17/08 05:08 PM
How can women be so heartless? My ex wife went to bed with a so-called friend of mine,my last girlfriend of eight years did the same thing,and the hardest one of all was my fiancee,who just kicked my love and feelings to the curb like it was nothing. are they all like that?

cojackstraw Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/17/08 05:11 PM
Thanks Danny!!!!

cojackstraw Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/17/08 05:14 PM
wow im sorry.cant people be true? You are only as good as your word!!!

cojackstraw Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/17/08 05:15 PM Edited by cojackstraw on Thu 01/17/08 05:20 PM
You all are great people,and there has to be the right person for us all!!!I just dont know weither to surch for her or let her find me? I just started this thing and I can allready feel like Im making friends (THATS A GOOD THING!!!)

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Thu 01/17/08 05:15 PM
I'm so sorry you're hurting. Endings suck. Especially these kinds. I've had more than my share. There's not a whole lot to be done but to go through the pain and sadness, coping as best you can. Be well. Love & Light, ~angelfire

Barbielou49 Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 79	Fri 01/25/08 01:35 PM
I do not know....you search through the memories of the time you were together with that love you felt you would die for and you can not seem to pin point where it went sour. Your try and try. The only thing helping me is talking and laughing with friends and staying very, very busy and away from all music that brings memories back to haunt the mind, soul, heart....

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Fri 01/25/08 02:19 PM
Oh man, I know that feeling so well. I can symphathize with you. My friends and family say just go on and get over it. It is easier said than done. It makes it very hard to give out your heart again. I know how you feel and my heart goes out to you.

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Fri 01/25/08 02:21 PM
3 times..aint life a bi tch?

mommyof1 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 25303	Sun 03/16/08 10:12 AM
How can women be so heartless? My ex wife went to bed with a so-called friend of mine,my last girlfriend of eight years did the same thing,and the hardest one of all was my fiancee,who just kicked my love and feelings to the curb like it was nothing. are they all like that? No, we are NOT all like that!! One could ask the same of men? My ex did the same thing to me, that's why we got divorced, and you know the rest of that story. It happens to all of us at one time or another. Good thing its not happening now, huh baby?! I love you!!