sometimes yup, sometimes nope

Sure it is. Considering my relationships start out as friendships.. that is how they normally end up. Sometimes it takes some time and reflection to get back to that... but just because the relationship failed as a partnership does not mean that whatever of them I found to be attractive is false or is not there anymore. Either that.. or I'm just an idiot who is simply lonely and has no standards in the first place.

I couldn't do that. The part of agin,and again,again

If it don't work the first time and it don't work the second time. I'm just asking for pain after that.

i think if there are children involved and if both parents are in their life...it is best to be friends... sure when i divorced my ex i was angry ..but never in front of my daughter.... she was 3 at that time... was hard sometimes but we managed... and i like him today.... hes a great father!!! when there was santa for a few yrs after that i even managed to go to his house x-mas morning to see what santa brought my daughter and vise versa..... when it was my year... but her dad was really involved with her i know im lucky to have that for my daughter... even when i had a boyfriend after that ..when he dropped her off after softball and she wanted him to have dinner over there was no problem with that...