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So last night I posted a thread about a girl i met. I got her number and i didnt know when to call her, ask her out, or even what to say when i did call her. So everyone said to call her today, so I did, and I invited her out to a local mall to just walk around hang out look at stuff tommorow. She couldnt go because she had class that day, but does want me to call her back tommorow night so we can work somthing out. So, I want to spend some time talking to her on the phone while I have the chance, so what do I talk about? What should I say and what SHOULDNT I say? people, help me out here.
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well, just talk to her about school, what she wants to do with her life, what she likes, what you like, your dreams. blah blah blah, just act like you've known her for a while and keep her attention.
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see what each of u like in hobbies,interests,school,family,cover the world.
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So last night I posted a thread about a girl i met. I got her number and i didnt know when to call her, ask her out, or even what to say when i did call her. So everyone said to call her today, so I did, and I invited her out to a local mall to just walk around hang out look at stuff tommorow. She couldnt go because she had class that day, but does want me to call her back tommorow night so we can work somthing out. So, I want to spend some time talking to her on the phone while I have the chance, so what do I talk about? What should I say and what SHOULDNT I say? people, help me out here.  Slow down. and when you talk to her you tell the truth and be yourself so she can see what kind of person you are.
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Well you could ask simple stuff like, what kind of music is she into, what kind of movies she likes or doesn't like, what kind of sports etc.
Just some ice brakers I guess you could start out, or even ask what kind of food she likes, if you haven't done so ask what is she going to school for etc. Good Luck. |
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keep it safe ask her about the music she likes,how shes doing in school,if she has spring break plans,things she likes to do
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Tue 01/15/08 09:38 PM
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Find things you might have in common .. like music or movies or what you kill time with and talk about those things.
Also give her things to share about her .. but most important then? L I S T E N VERY important.  |
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Pass me her phone number. I'll call her and make all the arrangements for you, and then I'll get back to you.
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just be you
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Try not to talk about guy stuff. Stay away from talking about anything sex related or too macho.
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just be you ditto |
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Ok, this helps some. I guess I forgot to mention before that we talkedfor a good 45min to an hour when we met. So we know the basics about each other.
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just be you |
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I would never pretand to be somone else, Im strait up about who I am all the time.
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Just be yourself, give her the complments she deserves,
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Pass me her phone number. I'll call her and make all the arrangements for you, and then I'll get back to you. lol. this is is either a really nice guy or he has other plans 
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Okay if you already know the basics, then just chill when you talk. I think it's annoying when you get asked toooo many questions. Talk like you would to someone you know., a friend or whatevah.
ps .. be really careful not to talk TOOOO much about you (like don't be a convo hog LOL) .. I've had guys talk sooo much I could lay the phone down, do some stuff and come back. they'd never know I was gone
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stay calm and confident. Just be yourself and ask lots of questions, chances are she can talk a lot about herself...if she's anything like me...not to be self absorbed or anything..lol...you cant go wrong with the simple questions
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I'm not sure, but if she's seen the pix you posted and still interested, I think you can rule out any areas of the intellect.
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just be you Oh, no. I don't think that's gonna work. |
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