This is GREAT..thought I would share it

QUOTE'S (WHEN HE'S NOT INTO U)



DONT WORRY, HES JUST NOT THAT INTO ME EITHER!!

Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.

If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.

An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship."

Don't get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he'll do the asking.

If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.

Just because you like to lead doesn't mean he wants to dance. Some traditions are born of nature and last through time for a reason.

"Hey, let's meet at so-and-so's party/any bar/friend's house" is not a date. Even if you live in New York.

You are good enough to be asked out.

If you have to be the aggressor, if you have to pursue, if you have to do the asking out, nine times out of ten, he's just not that into you.

What you should see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You should be too busy being adored.

Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they're going to do.

If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs.

**"Busy" is another word for "asshole". "Asshole" is another word for the guy you're dating.**

You deserve a ****ing phone call.

Better than nothing is not good enough for you.

There's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he's your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.

Your lost self-esteem may take longer to find than a new boyfriend, so prioritize accordingly.

He's just not that into you if he's having sex with someone else.

If you are in a mutually established monogamous relationship, then when someone cheats on you, they have decided to blatantly disrespect a very important decision you two made together. They've chosen to do this without your knowledge, thereby adding lies and secrecy to your relationship.

Your only responsibility in someone else's lapse in judgement is to yourself.

Ladies, don't let your desire to be loved and feel affection cloud your judgement.

If he wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you, etc., when he's inebriated, it ain't love- it's sport.

Don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.

If you don't feel like you're rushing, why are you waiting?

Breaking up means not seeing them again. It may be tempting to forget this pearl of wisdom, but just remember, it's still called breakup sex.

Cut him off. Let him miss you.

There's no mystery- he's gone and he wasn't good enough for you.

Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.

Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.

Freaks should remain at the circus, not in your apartment.

You already have one asshole. You don't need another.

The whole thing seems to make it sound like it's his fault that he's not interested. Why is the dude the asshole if you're just not that appealing?

Personally, I do almost everything on the list. It drives a woman crazy if you don't pay attention to her, then she's all over you.

Those statements go both ways. Men need to replace the word man with women and heed it also.

You can only control yourself. You cannot f*ck your way into a man's/women's heart. They either love you and act right or they don't love you at all. Period.