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Since you can't take care of yourself and she isn't taking care of you I'm thinking you should fire her and move into a home, or get professional care. Maybe send your daughter here for a week and I can try to straighten her out! HEY!MY SON NEEDS TO GET HIMSELF TOGETHER...CAN YOU REALY HELP? |
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Does he want to join the national guard?
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DERBY,THATS A GOOD QUESTION.
LET ME ASK HIM............. |
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You can only hope you did the best that you can to raise your children. What she is doing to you is not very nice. You need to get help for yourself. You should re-explain to her that hse is not taking care of you and if she can't understand then you need to get someone else. Trust me she will get over it. She might not talk to you for awhile but eventually they come back.
Hang in there |
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fire her ass!!!!! if she cant appreciate wat u did for her , her whole life by all means disown her shell learn a lesson AGREED!!!! Thats crazy... 
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You need to fire her, and call the government..she should have to pay them back....how rude of her to do that to her own mother! my God! I would NEVER do that to my mother...we fight ya but i wouldnt do that to her...you need to call right away and stop the money going to her...its not right of her to neglect you...and if you fire her that is not disowning her..sounds like she needs to grow up..please keep us posted on how you are doing..i am VERY worried about you..if I could I would be there helping you, and doing her job
Hope you are well! |
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Since you can't take care of yourself and she isn't taking care of you I'm thinking you should fire her and move into a home, or get professional care. Maybe send your daughter here for a week and I can try to straighten her out! well don't think just because i had surgery an might need some help isn't reason to go to a home. i just want her to do her job shes paid for. if she can't don't think firing her means i disown her as she thinks. good choice of words with u take daughter an put mom in home either. |
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You can only hope you did the best that you can to raise your children. What she is doing to you is not very nice. You need to get help for yourself. You should re-explain to her that hse is not taking care of you and if she can't understand then you need to get someone else. Trust me she will get over it. She might not talk to you for awhile but eventually they come back. Hang in there thanks for ur strait answer. |
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you need to separate the personal form th work
she is not doing her job, if she were in someone else's business or like a group home and expected to do the duties and wasn't they would not hesitate to fire her. somehow hold onto hope that she will come around to knowing that it is not disowning her in the firing but you need somebody to do specific duties and take care of particular needs while you recover form your surgery if she cannot figure this part out I am sorry do not put the safety of your health in jepardoy over your family members wants. this may be the hardest thing you may have to do but its inevitable for your survival. good luck try and stay strong your in our thoughts and prayers over this way |
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i'm having a problem with my adult daughter. think i spoiled her to much with a not so good dad. she is getting paid from the state to take care of me since surgery. one hungred a week. she don't do her job just small part of it. she has just moved out an don't like walking to do her job. don't fix me meals or do the cleaning that is in paper work. been in an out of hosp. with dehydration, lack of food. she has stated that if i fire her then i disowned her. so do i get the help i need or lose a daughter? update: thank you for all the advice. i have talked to her an am letting her get paid for just what she does. friends are helping me out. shes not happy but in time hopefully will understand. i did it for my mom with out pay gladly. raised her with lots of love even if she didn't get it from her dad. shes got some growing up yet to do. some of u who are younger seem to have it more together. others just say give up. thanks again |
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Honestly, she should show you more respect then this. If she says she is going to disown you, what kind of daughter is that? I think you need help, esp because you just had surgery. You need to sit her down and explain to her that if she can not do the job, then you will find someone else who will.
I think this is what is wrong with todays kids, we give them everything and don't make them work for it. You are not teaching her any responcibility. Plus you really need the help. If she was any type of a person, she would not do this to anyone LET ALONE her mother!! Sit her down..give her a choice to do the work or find someone else! Take care of yourself!!! Good luck 
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Let her go, she doesn't deserve your love
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