I just gave a lady my number, and se didn't give me her's because I think she wanted to be safe and make sure first. I feel that is fine, does not bother me at all, I think you have to be safe while meeting peeps on the net.

i seen it go both ways and lots of time there liers and cheaters....i aint either....Mike 814-629-9512...if i dont awnser its Peggy Sue my dog....she dont speak to well

Soft...As with anything else in life there are going to be people who lie. The Internet is a great place to hide.

I think your approach is great, and I do the same thing.

Good Luck, and don't let the few ruin it for the many. Trust me, there are real, great guys on here.

Ok...
Correct me if I am wrong...Now when I connect with a potential interest...I like to have them give me thier yahoo messenger id...and connect with them on there for a few days. Now after a few days ...after I feel the vibes are right...and they are asking for my phone number...and this is mainly for the ladies..I have found...and you are not being un-lady-like....to ask for thiers instead. This way you are still in control here..If for so some reason they start giving excuses or don't want to give it to you....I found from experience...there may be a problem here. I am still running from a jealous wife of a man that told me he was single...I just wanted to know If you ladies have any other ideas here.....
<<Softtail>>>

i dont have a phone !!!!

i ALWAYS give my # out and dont want the woman to give me hers until she feels 100% comfy around me.trust is very important to me.

Here's a respectable man...ladies...