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Topic: truth should be show
gregory583 Joined Wed 08/29/07 Posts: 526	Sun 01/13/08 10:30 AM Edited by gregory583 on Sun 01/13/08 10:32 AM
why do people post pictures of them that are not real or outdated? photos should be as recent as possible,i have been shown pic from when they were younger and then see a recent view and its like totally differant and thats very misleading.i remain friends,but it honestly changes the first impression i had , and first impressions really do mean a lot.so to close i say please post recent photo or none at all that is best way to go

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Sun 01/13/08 10:32 AM
my pictures are real...scary isnt it?

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Sun 01/13/08 10:33 AM
all my pictures are recent- w/i a year, however only because i do not have any old ones. i think it is "neat" to see people back when for some it makes them feel better about themselves as long as they are honest and upfront when necessary

thegooddude24 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 385	Sun 01/13/08 10:34 AM
Yes. Makes more sense to upgrade to recent pics instead of backwards. I plan on putting an update up. The pic I have up is like six months old. I've changed too...

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Sun 01/13/08 10:35 AM
Is Oct of 07 recent enough? Mine where taken for this site.

hunter870 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 772	Sun 01/13/08 10:36 AM
In some aspects I agree with you but you should think that not all people have cameras and can only use what they have at hand or what makes themselves feel the best.This is just my opinion though,and I understand your opinion.Have a good day!!

Dukes71107 Joined Fri 11/23/07 Posts: 160	Sun 01/13/08 10:36 AM
All my pictures are real and recent.... then again.. maybe thats why i have no contacts.. Lol

misty_57 Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 1618	Sun 01/13/08 10:39 AM
Mine are recent...did you think to ask them how old their pic is first, if it's so important to you? I happen to look at the persons choice of pictures as an expression of themselves, no matter how old or new, or if it's not them at all.

gregory583 Joined Wed 08/29/07 Posts: 526	Sun 01/13/08 10:40 AM
why do people post pictures of them that are not real or outdated? photos should be as recent as possible,i have been shown pic from when they were younger and then see a recent view and its like totally differant and thats very misleading.i remain friends,but it honestly changes the first impression i had , and first impressions really do mean a lot.so to close i say please post recent photo or none at all that is best way to go if a pic is all they have on hand i agree they should post but at least advise,if its more then five years old.i understand some floks age quicker then others ,but omg i was told a horror story by a lady last evening about this and main reason i decided to bring it up

ImDavid Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 1403	Sun 01/13/08 10:41 AM
I like the photos that are trying to be passed as the person in the profile. I saw one last night that had the name of the site still on it that it was taken from...

cuppy59 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 17536	Sun 01/13/08 10:43 AM
mine have some dates hun. don't be dismayed. We all have some kind of issues and are afraid to let go. I flow with the mood.

gregory583 Joined Wed 08/29/07 Posts: 526	Sun 01/13/08 10:45 AM
omg did i open a box of worms ,but its all good i justr wondered what others thought after i was told about what happened with a friend of mine.not gonna mention name but i will say this PEOPLE STILL TEASE HER ABOUT HOW DIFFERANT THE GUY LOOKED IN PERSON ,NOT A THING LIKE PHOTO POSTED SHE I MUST SAY WAS VERY BROKEN HEARTED,i felt bad for her .

cuppy59 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 17536	Sun 01/13/08 10:46 AM
I on the other hand am not photogenic and so when I meet someone they are shocked and say my pics don't do me justice. I also have great eyes, been told that for years, hun.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 01/13/08 10:52 AM
omg did i open a box of worms ,but its all good i justr wondered what others thought after i was told about what happened with a friend of mine.not gonna mention name but i will say this PEOPLE STILL TEASE HER ABOUT HOW DIFFERANT THE GUY LOOKED IN PERSON ,NOT A THING LIKE PHOTO POSTED SHE I MUST SAY WAS VERY BROKEN HEARTED,i felt bad for her . It SUCKS whenever ANYONE gets hurt for a lie... And I have seen MANY one picture profiles that have been fake,,NOT ALL,OK...but some. And its always best to ASK the one they like to POST a pic with THEM giving the camera the peace sign, in front of there face, or the bird or whatever, as long as they do it and show their face in back of their hand signal.....NO PROBLEM,,,if they match THEIR REAL, on what they posted as their pic... Then NO-ONE has any SURPRISES..... TRY IT!!!!

Softtail70 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 377	Sun 01/13/08 11:01 AM
omg did i open a box of worms ,but its all good i justr wondered what others thought after i was told about what happened with a friend of mine.not gonna mention name but i will say this PEOPLE STILL TEASE HER ABOUT HOW DIFFERANT THE GUY LOOKED IN PERSON ,NOT A THING LIKE PHOTO POSTED SHE I MUST SAY WAS VERY BROKEN HEARTED,i felt bad for her . It SUCKS whenever ANYONE gets hurt for a lie... And I have seen MANY one picture profiles that have been fake,,NOT ALL,OK...but some. And its always best to ASK the one they like to POST a pic with THEM giving the camera the peace sign, in front of there face, or the bird or whatever, as long as they do it and show their face in back of their hand signal.....NO PROBLEM,,,if they match THEIR REAL, on what they posted as their pic... Then NO-ONE has any SURPRISES..... TRY IT!!!! Life is short...too bad people put the effort into being something they are not or were. They could be passing up a chance to total happiness. Seen it all too, kinda...