Topic: What would you do?
trueokie2's photo
Fri 01/11/08 10:55 AM
I am on another date site ok. I am talking to this man, and he tells me that I have a lot in common with his friend. He starts telling me about his friend. I start to figure out, hey this is the man I was seeing for a few months. So I gave the guy his name. The guys says I can't give you info about him, but did tell me that he has a brain aneurysm. So I texted the exbf and he texted me back today. He is suppose to call me. I am just heartbroken, crying all day. Have not heard from him in 3 weeks.
I am very emotional right now.

What would you do in this situation?

YourLove1's photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:00 AM
tell yourself that ur better then that and go on with ur life and find someone better ...

Amalie's photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:01 AM
just be patient..kind and understanding.. aneurysms are no joke. Please just be patient. He probally needs you right now. If you ever cared for him at all at least be a shoulder!!

trueokie2's photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:01 AM
That is easier said than done. I would like to at least hear what he has to say. My heart is just breaking into does anyone understand that, :cry:

trueokie2's photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:03 AM
I care for him so much, and he didnt want to be a burden on me and the kids.. Oh God it is so hard... :cry:

WOWCANDYKISSES's photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:09 AM

I care for him so much, and he didnt want to be a burden on me and the kids.. Oh God it is so hard... :cry:


Wow,.. This just breaks my heart, I really wish I could say something but I would feel the same way you do right now,

But Iam sure everything will be fine,hang in there and try to be strong, Life is about experices, we live and we learn.

flowerforyou You need flowers to cheer you up.


mattbaseball21player's photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:12 AM
im sorry for you to, candykisses is right life is about experiences theres always good and bad ones but what makes us as people is how we handle the bad ones! live everyday like it is your last, i live by that motto!

trueokie2's photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:14 AM
He is afraid he won't be around for me and the kids. He doesn't understand that I would be here for him to take care of him in good times as well as bad. I am an emotional mess right now.. :cry:

Amalie's photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:15 AM
I am sorry your heart is breaking...That really saddens me as well. however just try to understand what postion he is in and maybe tell him how you feel as well..

be strong!!

trueokie2's photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:22 AM
I will be strong for him, its just scares me to think he may not ever be in my life again. If he will give me a chance to show how much I care and that I would take care of him for the rest of his life. :cry:

no photo
Fri 01/11/08 11:26 AM

I will be strong for him, its just scares me to think he may not ever be in my life again. If he will give me a chance to show how much I care and that I would take care of him for the rest of his life. :cry:


You seen the actual doctors reports?? Probably not..... Unless you know this guy personally, have met him, gone to a dr appts with him.... count your blessings and bail....


MicheleNC's photo
Fri 01/11/08 05:17 PM
Awww, Okie, just reach out to him. Let him know you are there for him no matter what.

He may just be digesting the news in his own way.

Hugs, M

trueokie2's photo
Sat 01/12/08 08:02 AM
I have GREAT NEWS, we got in touch with one another. He will be here Monday, bigsmile He will have surgery Jan. 31st. He will need everyones Prayers and thank you for the people who are reading this now.

It says in the Bible;
All things work together for good, to those who Love the Lord.

Thank You Again For Reading. All Prayers are Needed. God Bless You.flowerforyou