a good lady has nice tits and a nice ass!!!!

If people could do that

There wouldn't be so much heartaches JMO

i'm still not sure.

A good woman/man is all in the eyes of the one that is looking. For me a good man would be one that could accept me with all my faults and love me regardless of circumstance. He would also have to be capable of providing half of the support of the relationship as well as I would be. Not someone that is controlling or wants to change a person into someone they are not. But that is just my opinion.

Grandma Joy's Top Ten
#1 Usually you should trust your instinct. If that little voice inside says something isn't right it isn't. Doesn't mean they are all bad but it is a pretty good sign that they aren't good for you.
#2 Do they keep you feeling you are in good company or just from feeling lonely? Most of the time you get into bad relationships it is because you haven't done enough work on yourself to have friends and good family relationships to keep you from being lonely.
#3 Would you want this person in the life of some other person you know and love? If they don't feel right to be in your loved ones life they probably aren't right for yours.
#4 Pay attention to what they tell you or leave as a lie by ommission. Most good people don't boast or brag a whole lot but they will tell you about themselves. Where they are from, work, hobbies, and relationships. Check out what they tell you. If there are big holes or lots of gaps then something is wrong. If any of it doesn't turn out to be true cut your losses and move on.
#5 Nice people are not always looking for what you can do for them but more what they can share. They might need some nurtureing but it feels reciprocal and doesn't involve money or possessions exchangeing.
#6 Good people have a Good Track record. That doesn't mean people have to be perfect but if they have "turned around" they know they have to put in the time to prove themself.
#7 Good People have a good Attitude and it is usually supported by gratitude.
#8 Good people will Respect others. Not just their friends and family or who can help them but others who they encounter day to day.
#9 Remember Do unto others as you would have done unto you. It might seem tiresome but eventually your good reputation will preceed you and help attract like persons.
#10 Realize we all encounter a few bad apples gathering our life's bushel. You get ahold of a bad one spit it out and go on. Don't hold the bitterness in your mouth or be afraid to enjoy the next delicious bite of life. Hurts fade and are forgotten easier by moving forward and planting the next harvest.

Randy912 hit it right on. Don't be in a hurry to meet them.. Love is stronger when it takes its time. Hurry up the relationship and you will end up in divoce court. ha!

this is the hardest question todate, the only way I surpose is to talk to them and hope that they are telling the truth, because eventually they will slip up if they are not.

Ican believe you've just said that. That the most immature answer of all!!!!

spiritual eyes........recognize!!!!!!!

Yeah I dont think you can either, you'd have to get to know them first before you can judge that

This is simple to answer....just approach the lady and ask her straight up! Duh!

spend two days just talking to them.