This is what I find sexy about my gf:

From a physical standpoint -- the perfect facial features, not the "usual," but sort of exotic. Amazing eyes, and a smile to raise the dead. She is a good height for me -- 5'4" (historically, everyone I've dated is either 5'0" or 5'8" so this is a nice midpoint). She has the kind of body that isn't too skinny or too heavy -- she has been involved in athletic activities most of her life, and has never gotten out of shape. She looks great in a T-shirt and shorts, and she even wears glasses, which I have always found attractive.

But, realistically, lots of people could have all that.

What sets her apart, and makes her unique, is her intelligence -- she is the smartest person I've ever know, the most creative, the most loving and compassionate, and she has a great sense of humor. We finish each other's sentences; sometimes we even start them. We can talk all day and never run out of things to talk about. And when nothing needs to be said, we don't worry about it....communication is at the heart of it all.

Yeah, I think there needs to be a physical attraction. But that's the easy part. I've had dozens of girlfriends I was physically attracted to -- for 3 months. It's the other stuff that makes it work long-term. Gem is the only one I've ever met who has it all.

Someone just asked what made a man sexy, so lets switch it. What makes a woman sexy??