Nice read... as for being in the same boat...I know it can be hard.. People find it hard to look within at first..but it just weeds out the ones that ain't worth to to begin with..

I'm chubby and want chased

I agree with you!!! I'm a big girl but I still in shape just because Im bigger I'm not date able? But I do enjoy the sex.

I am my self and think that being BBW is like the new skinny. I am sorry but i would want to be like some of my other friends they like wear a size 2 what in the hell you need to eat girl

I wouldn't want to be a size 2 but maybe just a few sizes smaller, so I could get my clothes at normal places

Well you right but i just can't see my self that skinny cause to me some guys just like to have something to hold to not bones to hold to that is just what i think i know that this might sond mean but i like being a heavey sit girl you know

I do too most of the time

I have never understood why women want to be thinner than they are. personally I've always preferred the fuller figure woman or as I like to say it the more bodacious beautiful woman

The same attraction, or lack thereof, applies to each extreme in size, as it does in age, facial structure, etc. It's not just big men or women.

Though a fan of the reubenesque full-figured woman, I've never been seriously involved with a large woman. However, I've seen lotsa full-figured women who've made me look . . . like Queen Latifah!

Maybe it's just us guys with the small penises who are intimidated and cover it up with our alleged bias.

This is my opinion on this......

People judge what they want on different parts of the person. For those that physical stimulation and they want the rock hard perfect body that is their person thing. It doen't make it right or wrong. Some choose others for the conversation and the intellectual stimulation. While others choose for the emotional conection. It just makes me laugh because the ones that base their whole selection process on physical are usually the ones wondering why they got cheated on or that they just can't seem to make the relationship work. This goes for women and men. I think there has to be an equal part from all three of these things for me.

I am not a tiny barbie type either. Before a near fatal car accident, two kids, and cancer it was. I guess the person that loves and and wants to be with me will love me for all of my faults the same as I will love them for theirs...Plus, I can always lose a few extra pounds, but personality and a great heart I already have. Judge me by those first.

I don't have a problem with woman and what the choose to weight, as long as they are happy with them selfs then that's all that matters.

I only have a problem with my self, well not totally but I would like to look how I used when I was like years younger but I don't think that will happen, I still keep my self in good shape and all.

But all in all I say if your in good shape and happy with your self and health then that's all that matters. As long as your happy with you.

Im PHAT (Pretty, Hot and mother f*ckin Tempting!)

I have a man who doesn't think I'm big at all. I'm a healthy, not obese woman. I love who I am. He loves me...for me. He's warned me though...If I were ever to get big...he'd have some pit bulls running after me!! JOKE ladies.

AMEN.

Im certainly no skeleton but im not a seal either =) Im just healthy and if guys cant understand that you know where the door is.

I luv it Hawaii
When will pple realize, it's not just the outside, but the inside. Everyone has their own preference, some like skinny minny, some like big girls, some like black, some like white. But, who wants to judge a person on just their looks??????????? Not me. I'm quite content being a big girl, Just more of me to LOVE.

Nobody posted their personal information. We were discussing guys who say like big girls and then deny it to their friends. Some names were mentioned BUT they are not JSH members and there's nothing in the rules that says you cant do that.

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