You will never know if she is the real deal or not unless you move in with each other. It's a quick way and sometimes the hard way to find out what the person might be like. Other then that it all trust. talking on the net is one thing but spending time with someone is where you will see some what of what the person might be like. Being on the net, chatting on the comp, the text messages and even being on the phone all the time is more of a thrill then reality. It's the excitement of the what if knowing you haven't met yet with most. I know I went off the subject kinda lol. But without any communitaion, the actual words coming out of ones moth. We don't take most things seriously and most need to hear what one is saying to feel it.

If I'm hearing moths talking.. 'If she is real or not', is the least of my issues.

We are all on our best behavior in the beginning of a relationship, regardless if it is from here or local... then the honeymoon is over. That's when you see and show, the less obvious character flaws.

If you are wondering if someone is real? As in, do I have the right name and address?... Are they married or wanted by law enforcement? That alone is a problem that needs dealt with..no matter whether there is substance to the suspicion or not.

Do you have to blow her up to get her going in the morning????

Actual words coming out of ones moth. What I was getting at is some people are good talkers but I tend to leasten to the tons in there voice and to actually lesting to what there saying. Do they believe what there talking about in there heart. Over all actions speaks loader then words and you want know that untill you spend time with anyone.

I agree...everyone is on their best behavior in the beginning...