Well - probably many of the same topics here,but I just have been wondering....

What is it that men wants out of a woman - and a relationship??

Prob sound stupid as hell here,but then again - just wondering

BBW...

As stupid as this sounds I made a list of what I was searching for....what I wanted, needed to feel fulfilled in a relationship. Now I know what qualities I would want him to have, to even consider having him in my life. Before I complied my list...I didn't have a clue. It just makes perfect sense now...

I wish you luck in your search...........

That really depends on the situation and the circumstances.

It really depends on the guy and what they are wanting out of a relationship etc.

Personally, I can be fairly picky at times, but I think most of us can.

However, the most important traits to me are honesty, loyalty, and affection. I love a girl that can make me feel as loved, wanted, needed, and appreciated as I want to make her feel.

You'd think that would be pretty simple, but it's really not. At 22, I've already been engaged twice and have had at least three other serious relationships that I wanted to go somewhere. Out of all of those, I ended one, three cheated on me, and one just stopped talking to me with no explanation.

What do I want out of the relationship? Respect, communication, compassion, understanding, and at least some generalizations we have in common that gives us something to build on.

Ok ok...perhaps I did this wrong LOL!!

What about you guys that answers here - experience etc. I know what i'm looking for in a guy (in some way I guess we all know what we are looking for)!!

Let me hear your dreams

I would want a woman to understand me, and make life not so rough. I mean not for her spoil me, not treat me like I'm last in her life. Sex isn't everything, its an add-on to great friendship. I'm looking for a best friend, LOL.

Its my experience...men are simple and primordial...
We want a woman who is hot, submissive, big boob and nice hips(child bearing)
What we need is a woman to fulfill out basic needs...
love,sex,keep our bellies full...you know that kind of thing...

I used to want a perfect girl, now after having my heart ripped out through my spine i only want two things. Them to share some common intrests with me, and HONESTY!

LOL!! So in other words - not so different from wimen
Oh,exept from wanting big boobs and nice hips

so very well said

Jupp!! I think we all need to look for a friend in our partner. What is a relationship if there exists no friendship??

A pulse...

Someone that is easy to communicate with, somebody who shares your interests, somebody who can't get enough of you and vice versa, and somebody who looks good.

To not have to chace them. Alot of people say they know what they want but in reality most don't know what they want. But getting back to your question. For me it is just be real and true to yourself and the rest with follow.

Im looking for someone I can 'pitch and catch' with, not literally but in conversation.
I want a woman that shares my main passions in life so that we can share a whole lot more.
I want a relationship where my girl doesnt fret, worry or get all needy and insecure when I need to be alone (which is often, I need it). I basically want a relationship where my gal understands the needs of introversion, and see that its not anti-social or shy or whatever the BS insecure extroverts try frame introversion as.
I want a relationship that is chock-full of spontaneity, I want to jump up and go man!