Okay so I have known this guy for about 6 or 7 years and we where really close. We lost contact for a few years and ran into each other a couple days before x mas …. We have been hanging out every day sense the day we ran into each other … I had forgotten how much I cared about him and after spending all this thim with him my feeling came rushing back… we have so much in common. We’ll I spent x mas and the new year with him … and we went to each others family’s …. Well when anybody asks if we are going out he always says yes to them and then I mustered up enough courage to ask him if we where dating and he said he is scared to get into a relationship , because he has been hurt so much in the past … and I told him that I have been hurt too but we cant stop living … we act like where dating .. And we tell people that we are but if I ask him he shy’s off .. He says he has strong feelings for me and he wants to be with me im so confused … I have never felt this way about someone before ….




WHAT SHOULD I D0o0o0o0o…? Please help …


Sorry its so long , but thanks for the help

.have a bite of the doughnut again to see if it still tastes the same ................how else will you know......dont regret

Ive been where you are BELIVE ME. My Best friend and I are going through basicaly the same thing but we've decided not to date I would sujest following your heart. It will show you what to do.

Sign off here, go spend more time with him. Nurture what the two of you have.

why rush it give it the time to grow.
you said you lost contact with him maybe some of the hurt he is talking about is over that,

ask him to play table tennis with you,that is true love..........

Why rush things? Just let things develop naturally. If its meant to be, then it will be.

what ????????????????????????

what do you mean

we have been nothing more then friends untill recently ,,,, i liked him before but never told him

lol nice

Friends with benefits would be my suggestion