Return it... An engagement ring is a symbol of a proposal to marry. If there's no marriage it needs to be returned.

Glasses or contacts?

For me or the person I am dating?

me, glasses. only need them for reading.


Morning activity date

or

Evening dinner and a movie date?

Evening dinner and a movie date


Cosy, indoor and chill vibes
Or
Outdoor, high-energy thill vibes?

Cosy indoor .....


Mock tails or cocktails before snuggling , after intimate dinner ?

Cocktails! (But, wine or bubbles i.e. champagne is preferred)


Asking a stranger out or first getting to know them in a conversation and then meeting up?

Conversation and if everything is ok later meeting.


A lonely evening at home with a movie or going to a bar alone?

Never in a bar alone ... to many temptations!
So at home with a movie , but not lonely ...

Message a guy first if interested or wait for his message if he is interested !!!

Wait... Then when he does message inform him I don't swing that way...


Start an evening date early (5PM ish) and end early (9PM ish)

Or

Start an evening date late (9PM ish) and end late (1AM ish)?

Start early and end late...
But, if it's a bad date I would prefer to start early and end early.


Join a social club (i.e. book club/ tennis club/ wine-tasting etc.)
Or
Do hobbies completely solo?

solo hobbyist


social dancing or routine type dancing?

hii

I'm going to say both. I don't have a preference since dance is my first (first) love.
And any moment now Devo is going to show up with the reiterating of the rules


At First: Physical attraction or personality attraction?

I'll let you pass since I've been having trouble following the rules myself.

OT: Physical attraction is always first, being personally attracted takes some time to get to know someone where physical attraction is instantaneous.

When going on a first date do you discuss how you'll be dressed beforehand so one of you isn't under dressed while the other is over dressed or do you just let the chips fall as they may?

I don't discuss how I will dress and I definitely won't ask because that's part of the fun... However, knowing what type of environment it will be will have influence the dress, so that's always good to know. For example when someone says, would you like to go to dinner followed by salsa dancing is important to know because bowling (yuck!) followed by dinner requires different attire.

Dating environment: activity based (paintball/ dancing etc.) or conversation based (i.e. coffee/ lunch/ dinner etc.) ?

It does depend but generally, Activity based.


Road trip vacation to a destination (8 hour drive or more)

or

Fly to destination?

Roadtrip for sure

Beach bonfire after fun in the sun?

Or

Backyard bonfire after a big barbecue?

Bonfire!

Snorkeling or sunbathing on a beach?

i haven't understood the game yet

Bern - Just pick one of the two choices that you prefer and make up 2 this or that questions of your own.

sunbathing on a beach

Weekly groceries free for a year

or

Rent free for a year?

Rent free


Day time travel
Or
Night travel