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Well if you get yourself banned don't look at me because I didn't report it.
I only reported you once a long time ago and for good reason. In fact, you were the only person I ever reported on a public forum in my entire life. And even that wasn't because of a single remark, but rather because you burned my very long fuse down to nothing. 
Speaks volumes doesn't it not? |
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[That is a complete lie. Mike can ban me, but LexFonteyne is a liar. I have NEVER tried to stop someone from disagreeing with me. I have suggested that it can be done without being offensive or insulting on many occations. The single most hypocritical -- and most pathetic -- post I have seen in my year+ here. And that's saying something! Did you even read what you wrote? A personal attack on me -- for stating an OPINION!! -- and then you have the nerve to say "I have suggested that it can be done without being offensive or insulting." Do you even understand the meanings of the words "offensive" and "insulting"? Like I said before, disingenuous! You're amazing. I'm sorry for you, Spider. I don't know what else to say. But now we know where the real attacks come from! 
You don't permit ANY disagreement, no matter how minor or harmless, without crying "deriding!" "Issues"? This is a lie. You know it and I know it. That's not an "opinion", it's libel. It's not true. You can say what you posted isn't offensive, that's an opinion, but what you said about my behavior is a lie. Pure and simple. |
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It is a book I hold high as well. But...I am in more remorse about the way you three are carrying on here than I am about anyones words about a book.
I usually read you guys with an open heart, and it's becoming hard right now due to the anger be presented here. My wish is for you to halt and let it go. Please. Words in a book is what this is about; and it has become words of anger due to disagreement in a belief system. Or not. We can all do this without all this crap. Kat 
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Well if you get yourself banned don't look at me because I didn't report it. I only reported you once a long time ago and for good reason. In fact, you were the only person I ever reported on a public forum in my entire life. And even that wasn't because of a single remark, but rather because you burned my very long fuse down to nothing.
Speaks volumes doesn't it not? You stated in several threads that I abuse my children. That's an illegal act. I could have filed libel charges against you. Think about that. |
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Well if you get yourself banned don't look at me because I didn't report it. I only reported you once a long time ago and for good reason. In fact, you were the only person I ever reported on a public forum in my entire life. And even that wasn't because of a single remark, but rather because you burned my very long fuse down to nothing.
Speaks volumes doesn't it not? You stated in several threads that I abuse my children. That's an illegal act. I could have filed libel charges against you. Think about that. What!?? 
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That may be true, but I didn't insult anyone in this thread. I commented on the quality of your and Lex's commentary on my comment. There is a nice way to disagree and a mean way, my point and my ONLY POINT was that it would be nice if everyone would try to disagree in a nice way. Wait a minute -- I'm a liar and a troll, and you didn't insult anybody in this thread? But if I say I don't believe in a book, THAT'S deriding? Wow!!
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You stated in several threads that I abuse my children. That's an illegal act. I could have filed libel charges against you. Think about that. I didn't even know you HAVE childern! How could I possible suggest how you might treat them???? Where you come up with this stuff is seriously beyond me. |
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This is indeed sad. You are all lovely men acting in a way so unbecoming. I feel really bad knowing what is happening here. Please let it go....
Kat |
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It is a book I hold high as well. But...I am in more remorse about the way you three are carrying on here than I am about anyones words about a book. I usually read you guys with an open heart, and it's becoming hard right now due to the anger be presented here. My wish is for you to halt and let it go. Please. Words in a book is what this is about; and it has become words of anger due to disagreement in a belief system. Or not. We can all do this without all this crap. Kat
I'm not angry at all. These are just posts in a forum on a dating website. I've been called a liar and a troll for expressing an opinion, and I'm trying to understand that. I don't really see anything unreasonable about wanting to understand something. |
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That may be true, but I didn't insult anyone in this thread. I commented on the quality of your and Lex's commentary on my comment. There is a nice way to disagree and a mean way, my point and my ONLY POINT was that it would be nice if everyone would try to disagree in a nice way. Wait a minute -- I'm a liar and a troll, and you didn't insult anybody in this thread? But if I say I don't believe in a book, THAT'S deriding? Wow!!
Liar isn't an insult, if the person lied. You lied. Therefore you are a liar. I called you a troll. Let's look at the defintion..."someone who posts controversial messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, with the intention of baiting other users into an emotional response." Calling someones beliefs a "faerytale" on an online forum...Yeah, I think that makes you a troll. You didn't say "I don't believe in the Bible", you said "it's a faerytale". Deriding is to "treat or speak of with contempt". So yes, you derided my beliefs. I didn't report it, I simply asked you to find a nice way to disagree. And this thread went from like 16 posts to almost 40 with you not defending your right to be offensive (which is your right) but instead stating that nothing you said could be considered offensive. |
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This is indeed sad. You are all lovely men acting in a way so unbecoming. I feel really bad knowing what is happening here. Please let it go.... Kat I'm with you Kat. This is getting too weird.
I'm outta here! |
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You stated in several threads that I abuse my children. That's an illegal act. I could have filed libel charges against you. Think about that. I didn't even know you HAVE childern! How could I possible suggest how you might treat them???? Where you come up with this stuff is seriously beyond me. I can't believe you would say that. You are so freaking low. You know for a fact that you said I abuse my children and I asked you several times to stop and I sent you emails asking you to stop before I finally contacted the Admins. Mike knows you did it, I know, you know and TLW knows, because I asked him why he wouldn't defend me when you were making those accusations. |
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I'm with you Kat. This is getting too weird.
I'm outta here! Abra, I agree. There will be no rational resolution here. |
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I called you a troll. Let's look at the defintion..."someone who posts controversial messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, with the intention of baiting other users into an emotional response." Calling someones beliefs a "faerytale" on an online forum...Yeah, I think that makes you a troll. You didn't say "I don't believe in the Bible", you said "it's a faerytale". Deriding is to "treat or speak of with contempt". So yes, you derided my beliefs. I didn't report it, I simply asked you to find a nice way to disagree. And this thread went from like 16 posts to almost 40 with you not defending your right to be offensive (which is your right) but instead stating that nothing you said could be considered offensive. as a Christian, i'm not even close to be offended by the fact that james and lex see the Bible as a fairytale. doesn't bother me in the least. in fact...it makes perfect sense. the Bible IS pretty darned fantastic...so, if you don't believe, it's at LEAST fantasy. spider, why do you even care WHAT they think of the Bible? why does that affect you in any way? |
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Hi lovely. Good to see ya.
Kat |
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Hi lovely. Good to see ya. Kat *smiles brightly* heya, kat...big hugs, pretty lady. and still praying for your sis. |
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