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You and me both.
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Have bike...need a nice girl rider!
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All of my relationships seem to start out as friends then move to something more now I'm in the worst one possible. We've been together for almost 4 months now and according to him were not dating but to me we are because its the same as a relationship. We got into a big fight about it before Christmas and now I haven't seen him in almost two weeks I've tried not to text him or call him but he ends up doing it to me and I always give in. I care about him so much and love him and he said he feels the same way back but I'm not sure what to do. It's like he wants to be with me without being with me. What do I do?  Are you caught up in the sort of "relationship" that doesn't involve ever going anywhere? Because of you don't go out on dates and interact with friends and family on both sides... that's not dating. That is friends with benefits, and unfortunately feelings can develop there. If he is telling you he has reciprocal feelings for you, then ask him to put up ot shut up. If you are hurt, then you should very clearly communicate this to him. We all deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, however if you do not expect it it's not always given. Relationships, regardless of their nature, are great learning experiences at your age. |
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No we do go out with friends and do stuff and he comes to my moms house with me all the time
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Hey. I know a guy, who knows a guy, who knows a guy, who is friends with this dude who will take your man out for $10 crack rock....and Hannah Montana tickets.
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No we do go out with friends and do stuff and he comes to my moms house with me all the time Then it might be a good ideas to describe why you think you are dating.. so we can get a clearer picture. We only know what you tell us! |
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I was discussing this same thing with a friend of mine the other day. It sounds like you are caught in the friends with benefits cycle. If you started the relationship as friends with benefits and are now trying to make it become a relationship, you are setting yourself up for hurt. Friends with benefits is friends with sex. Friends with the option of relationship later is different, in that they hold off on the sex until a commitment is made on both sides.
He is in the right if you started it as friends with benefits and are now trying to switch it up on him. |
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