The biggest sex organ is the brain. Romance is an all day every day affair. Put little notes around the house for your love to find. Walk by them and brush them with your hand to show you love touching them. Call, not like a stalker, but when they don't expect it just to say hi and check on them. Make little comments to them when you are together about how much their smile still thrills you or how something they said to you has stuck in your mind in a good way. Etc........... Romance is those little things you do for them all day long not just before sex, that is the usual mistake made. Hope this helps