Topic: New Friendships Are Hard
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Tue 02/08/22 02:43 PM
I feel like these days it's harder to make new friends. Ironically for me it was easier meeting people and making friends in my twenties than it is in my forties. Who has time really with work, families, and obligations... And are these friendships u make as an older adult even as genuine. I think maybe they are just different and u meet people with a different mindset. I find myself longing for an outside bond/friendship outside of my family/marriage. Not necessarily a sexual one but just a bond of some sort. Anyone else feel this way?

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Tue 02/08/22 04:17 PM
Yes, I find it very hard to make new friends. I moved to a new state 6 months ago, and I'm an introvert too, so that doesn't help. At least I'm near my sister though, and have my dog.

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Tue 02/08/22 04:23 PM
It has never been easy to have friends.

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Tue 02/08/22 07:08 PM
I've always had friends.

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Tue 02/08/22 08:22 PM
I feel like these days it's harder to make new friends. Ironically for me it was easier meeting people and making friends in my twenties than it is in my forties. Who has time really with work, families, and obligations... And are these friendships u make as an older adult even as genuine. I think maybe they are just different and u meet people with a different mindset. I find myself longing for an outside bond/friendship outside of my family/marriage. Not necessarily a sexual one but just a bond of some sort. Anyone else feel this way?

Yes. you are right. but I want to make friends and spend my time with them.

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Tue 02/08/22 11:19 PM
No i never felt it anyway. I have few friends an it's very easy to be with.
I never expects from anyone's.
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