Topic: Some advice needed
Italy0219's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:11 PM
OK need a little advice here. What is considered flirting? I work part time at a restaurant and still myself attracted to the nicer looking men. When they approach the register I don't know whether it's just my imagination but find most men smiling quite nicely when I ring them up, and kinda googly eyes, while the girl that works with me, doesn't get that. I feel those awkward moments when I am smiling and laughing back just because he is nice looking and then his wife is eyeing me to see if I am trying to take her man away, when in reality it is just pure admiration of a nice looking guy. This happens alot, should I stop smiling so much and hide my feelings more? Don't know how to handle this, need some feedback.

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:12 PM
honestly be yourself....just smiling i don't think is that big of a deal...and honestly if that is all it takes to get the wife/girlfriend he is with to worry....that she is very insecure...just my thoughts....as long as your not passing your number on the back of the reciept lol

lilith401's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:13 PM
I would say as long as you're not being flirtacious in an aggressive or intimate/inapproriate way then there is no problem. If you find a person attractive and you smile there is no harm in that. If you feel awkward, try talking more to the woman/wife just as much, so you give equal attention to them as a couple.

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Sat 12/29/07 06:14 PM
just be yourself................

chevylover1965's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:14 PM
just be yourself darling !flowerforyou

brian325's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:18 PM
Always smile... ya never know who may be looking! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Italy0219's photo
Sat 12/29/07 06:24 PM
Thanks Yalllaugh