Topic: Mutual Match
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Mon 07/12/21 07:49 AM
Why does the site insist on matching me with people when I haven't clicked the "match with her" button?
I get the "congratulations" message even when I send a "thanks for the nudge, but I'm not interested" message.

Very misleading to people, as it makes me look popular, and must be a disappointment to others when I say I'm not compatible with them.

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Mon 07/12/21 08:08 AM
By the very fact that you’re sending a message to someone who ‘Matched’ with you will make the site think you Match with them also. The site cannot differentiate between you messaging them to say “I’m interested” or “Sorry, but I’m not interested”.

Di
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