Topic: Chat
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Tue 12/25/07 04:22 PM



can understand that fear of committing. i tend to not let people close to me either. im friendly, fun, etc...but when i sense them closing in closer to my wall, i baracade it. that isnt a good thing either, we could be missing out on something special.


I'm the same way...People tell me how fun I am and how wonderful everything is...until those 3 words come out...then I panic and make up excuses on why I can't be in a relationship...and honestly, I have no idea why I am that way...maybe I need a therapist...haha


I have that same problem i don't think it's something wrong it's you just don't want to hear it or say it untill your sure.


I hear people say it all the time without meaning...I just like things to go slow...not lets meet, talk for a week and then make plans to get married!

Would you guys get married...or married again?

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Tue 12/25/07 04:24 PM
i dont even want to say or hear it when im sure lol. would i get married again....oh lord, i dont know really. if i could fine one 107, blind, deaf, cant speak, and rich as hell....maybe lol im kidding

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Tue 12/25/07 04:24 PM




can understand that fear of committing. i tend to not let people close to me either. im friendly, fun, etc...but when i sense them closing in closer to my wall, i baracade it. that isnt a good thing either, we could be missing out on something special.


I'm the same way...People tell me how fun I am and how wonderful everything is...until those 3 words come out...then I panic and make up excuses on why I can't be in a relationship...and honestly, I have no idea why I am that way...maybe I need a therapist...haha


I have that same problem i don't think it's something wrong it's you just don't want to hear it or say it untill your sure.


I hear people say it all the time without meaning...I just like things to go slow...not lets meet, talk for a week and then make plans to get married!

Would you guys get married...or married again?


Only if i met the right girl, the last relationship i was in she was getting like that after only a few date's, scared the heck out of me. i want to settele down but i don't want to rush things

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Tue 12/25/07 04:26 PM
I will be back in 5 minutes....lol

keep on postin away

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Tue 12/25/07 04:30 PM
I'm scared of marriage, only because I've seen how drastically people can change over the course of a few years.

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Tue 12/25/07 04:42 PM
very true most people that i know that have had a marriage work knew each other for several years before hand

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Tue 12/25/07 04:44 PM
yup, no reason to get in any hurry as far as I'm concerned

I always joke with people that none of my friend's have gotten married that weren't pregnant first... but it's the truth indifferent

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Tue 12/25/07 04:44 PM
i think it is so awesome when i see a little old couple holding hands or cuddling. i do know couple who have been together a long time. my ex's parents just celebrated their 75th anniversay...now that is something!

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Tue 12/25/07 04:47 PM
my great great aunt and uncle are at like 77 or 78 years now... she's like 95 years old and he's a year or 2 younger :smile:

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Tue 12/25/07 04:53 PM
my grandparents and parents are the same.

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Tue 12/25/07 04:55 PM
Edited by MZKat on Tue 12/25/07 04:58 PM
Ok I am back...

So what is it about the opposite sex do you guys find annoying?

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Tue 12/25/07 04:57 PM
That's a tough question... because everyone is different.

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Tue 12/25/07 04:58 PM
I can't stand guys that brag about themselves...

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Tue 12/25/07 04:59 PM

Ok I am back...

So what is it about the opposite sex do you guys find annoying?


just if the person is inmature.

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Tue 12/25/07 05:00 PM
I can't stand girls with major attitude... or immaturity is another good one...

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Tue 12/25/07 05:01 PM
I agree...maturity plays a big role!


What is your ideal relationship that you seek?

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Tue 12/25/07 05:04 PM

What is your ideal relationship that you seek?


Happiness with someone I'm proud to have around every day :smile:

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Tue 12/25/07 05:07 PM
Does distance play a factor?


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Tue 12/25/07 05:11 PM
Well... preferably they would be local... my only serious relationship went down the tubes due primarily to distance... grumble

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Tue 12/25/07 05:11 PM

I agree...maturity plays a big role!


What is your ideal relationship that you seek?


Some one that i can connect with and that knows that both people in a relationship there is give and take on both side's