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Nice guys are destined to be alone, or for the first part of their life. I am sure I will find someone in a few years but to be quite honest I have not met one single woman around my age who is ready for a real relationship, they are simply not mature yet or are still in party mode. Why arent their any women out their who are around my age who actually enjoy a good guy, a nice guy, a kind guy?
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Don't rush it! I was married all of my 20's-I don't regret the marriage-but I regret not having the freedom to do alot of things I am now catching up on. Enjoy your life and love will come along.
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Dude I know where your comin from. My X is 22. I thought the two kids she had would make her mature, but I was wrong. When it came to put up or shut up time in the relationship she bailed. Turns out all she was in it for was the good time, and when the money ran out she was gone.
Live and learn. 
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Edited by
eternalsun
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Mon 12/24/07 11:15 AM
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Don't rush it! I was married all of my 20's-I don't regret the marriage-but I regret not having the freedom to do alot of things I am now catching up on. Enjoy your life and love will come along. You know its funny you bring that up. I have always wanted a relationship that would eventually lead into marriage. Though the one girl I dated who lived with me for a long time really changed that mindset for me. |
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Nice guys are destined to be alone, or for the first part of their life. I am sure I will find someone in a few years but to be quite honest I have not met one single woman around my age who is ready for a real relationship, they are simply not mature yet or are still in party mode. Why arent their any women out their who are around my age who actually enjoy a good guy, a nice guy, a kind guy? I have yet to meet man or woman at your age that is mature enough for anything.....actually cross that off......30s or 40s too!!! |
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Guy, I got engaged to her just last month. She left me two weeks ago...so here I have been trying to figure out what I did wrong...she just met some other guy, and took off.
Like I said, live and learn. 
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the stupider a woman is the younger they have children with compete assholes, and this is why the world is populated by morons who breed out of control. every time i a meet an intelligent person they have no kids. humanity is a doomed race of crack babies having babies.
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Well I am one of the few then. I have a full time job, a car, a house, even a dog. All are paid for (or atleast being paid for lol) I rarely drink and when I say rarely I mean I will have one beer every so often with my dad or alone with a mean. I generally stay home. I would say I am very mature, even for men older than me.
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I'm a nice guy too. Women seem to go for the self confident knuckleheads. I don't know why. It's just been that way. And I think that many are just too young and haven't figured out what they want yet. I know I didn't really know what I wanted until I was in my 30's.
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Everything happens for a reason, I know wounds take time to heal, but most of the time, when you look back, you will be glad that somethings didn't work out because you met even a better person than the last one.
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While every situation is different, here is a quick glimpse into my crystal ball...
I met my eventual wife when I was 18. We dated for 7 years prior to getting married. We were married 6 years, had a beautiful daughter, an incredible house, wonderful friends and family. Then a couple of years ago, she decided to file for divorce because "she didn't know who she was and needed to find out for herself." Speaking from personal experience, save yourself the emotional torture and don't rush into anything. You (and her) will be happier in the long run! |
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Everything happens for a reason, I know wounds take time to heal, but most of the time, when you look back, you will be glad that somethings didn't work out because you met even a better person than the last one. Tell me about it...WEW!!!  I sure am glad she started cheating on me just one month after the engagement, then 2 or 3 years after we were married. |
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Nice guys are destined to be alone, or for the first part of their life. I am sure I will find someone in a few years but to be quite honest I have not met one single woman around my age who is ready for a real relationship, they are simply not mature yet or are still in party mode. Why arent their any women out their who are around my age who actually enjoy a good guy, a nice guy, a kind guy? I have yet to meet man or woman at your age that is mature enough for anything.....actually cross that off......30s or 40s too!!! Yuppers. Was duped into a date that didn't even call to let me know he was going to be late. Said he called, but he left no message. Emailed me from here on the site, and never said a word. Lucky for me I called to confirm. Yup! He was still in bed! Sh!T Doesnt matter the age. It's the expirience that counts. Sighhhhhhh, Merry Effin Christmas to me! Do I still go out with him? He still wants to. But lives an hour away which will make him 1 1/2 hours late. Hmmmmmm, seems nice girls get messed with too. |
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Age has nothing to do with it. It is all dependent on the person. My ex was 38 and left me for a 23 year old. Some men and women just never grow up. Age is just a number, it's what's in a persons heart and soul that matters....
Don't give up! I should of, but haven't 
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Wish I could find a nice girl to 'mess' with the rest of my life...
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Nice guys are destined to be alone, or for the first part of their life. I am sure I will find someone in a few years but to be quite honest I have not met one single woman around my age who is ready for a real relationship, they are simply not mature yet or are still in party mode. Why arent their any women out their who are around my age who actually enjoy a good guy, a nice guy, a kind guy? [/quote  TIME.... I have found that alot of guys and gals on the internet, come here because THEY are BORED and want to JUST PLAY HERE. Then ya have the ones who suffer public rejection. Caused by their looks, weight, handicaps, or just fear of meeting anyone in REAL life. Or because they suffer some conditions of personality disoders that THE NET, makes it easier for THEM to meet friends or a possible date. I have met some here who suffer depression and they have told me "THIS" is one way to deal with THAT and still be able to meet someone.. Then YOU have the 10 percent that are REALLY looking for a LIFE PARTNER, and MOST of THEM, are older than you, like my self for instance. LIFE and ROMANCE will turn SOME PEOPLE into PLAYERS, GAURDED HEARTS, SCARED SH!TLESS FROM FEAR. Because of SOME NUT CASES THEY HAVE EXPERIENCED ON "LINE". ALOT have been through DIVORCE'S and been BURNT, and NOW NEVER WANT TO BOND AGAIN. I drive a truck and moved to a NEW AREA about a year and a half ago and got on here to meet friends and MAYBE a date. But EVERYONE was SOoooo FAR away, that meeting them was next to impossible so NOW, WE have ALOT more people on here and some can be found with-in 50 miles from ya... Oh, sorry, I should tell you that LOVE HAS BEEN FOUND ON THIS SITE,,,, TWO HEARTS HAVE BEEN BLESSED,,,,WELL,,,MANY,MANY TWO HEARTS HAVE FOUND EACH OTHER HERE.. SO "IT DOES WORK".....lol But YOUR odds of a FAST FIND, is NOT in YOUR FAVOR.... Good Luck and I hope YOU stay around and give this PLACE the TIME to find YOU a sweet caring babe.... Have a MERRY CHRISTMAS, and be SAFE!!!! |
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Wish I could find a nice girl to 'mess' with the rest of my life... IS that a proposal Klug 
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Wish I could find a nice girl to 'mess' with the rest of my life... IS that a proposal Klug Nope, its a fact. 
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Nice guys are destined to be alone, or for the first part of their life. I am sure I will find someone in a few years but to be quite honest I have not met one single woman around my age who is ready for a real relationship, they are simply not mature yet or are still in party mode. Why arent their any women out their who are around my age who actually enjoy a good guy, a nice guy, a kind guy? It's true. Nice guys do always come last, because they're too afraid to fight for the girl they want. And that's just the way it is. |
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Edited by
creationsfire
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Mon 12/24/07 12:03 PM
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Your right Terry, but it seems a crap shoot. I don't think people should give up, but just be more careful who they show thier heart to. You can show your heart to friends and that's where it should start. Damn me for jumping in feet first again. Sighhhhhhhh
Keep on making friends. You never know who might turn out to be "the one". I've been here little under a year now. Made tons of wonderful friends and people. Have a good holiday. |
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