Why do you say you want a relationship. And then change your mind

I am looking for a relationship of the permanant kind, the kind with
rings. I have no idea about any of these other guys, they have to answer
for themselves.

I generally say that to get a woman to sleep with me. To be perfectly
honest. That is why you don't try to date guys you meet at a bar. As
one of those guys you should stick to the guys you meet at the
supermarket.

I not talking about sleeping with men.I'm talking about.men that say,
that they love you and want you. But then just leaves you.And you do
every thing for them.

I think those men just wanted you for sex and nothing else; I do not
feel this way if I want a relationship with rings, which i do in time,
then I want it to be full of love that can exclude sex if it has to.
Because there will be times that you cannot always have sex with another
like it may be unsafe. For instance, if a woman gets pregnant...forgive
me I am rambling.

hrmm, I don't know all the iterations...

Maybe they are secretly homosexual?
Maybe they were using you for your money?
Maybe they found someone better?

Men ARE pigs, but at least they are simple creatures.

@rhelton: You can have sex into the 3rd trimester. Some doctors even
recommend sex to induce labor.

steve i did not know you could in the third trimester; and i resent that
stereotype steve! Not all of us are pigs! I know alot of guys that are
like me that tend to be nice guys.

oh come on, I know you pick your nose in the car! Admit it, we all do
:D

it takes the right kind of partner 2 have a lasting relationship . if it
aint right say goodnight

I think some guys say that want a relationship because they feel trapped
at that moment--maybe you were pressuring them? I do believe there are
some nice guys out there who really do want a committed
relationship....Steve...you are not one of those guys..sorry to say.
I know there has been times when I have felt pressured and honestly
didn't know what to say or do..and I am sure that I didn't handle the
situation the right way, so I honestly believe that sometimes people
think that want a relationship and then when they stop and think really
hard about it---its not what they were expecting it to be.

lol, why would you be sorry to say that? :D

1) I know I am not very nice, at least I am honest about it.
2) I don't want anything serious right now, there are way too many women
out there, it would not be fair if I were to tell a woman we are going
to be exclusive and cheat on her.

I might be a slut, but I am very honest with my partners.

Well Steve, atleast you are honest with all your women. I think you
should have fun while you are young. Maybe when you find that right
woman, you won't have that urge to sleep with anyone else because you
already had your fair share of having fun when you are younger....so I
say--go for it as long as you are honest.

I feel people say I love you way to freely. I know I lost one good
girlfriend because I would not say "I love you". But to me those words
are more than words. When I say it it means it. It took me 5 months of
dating before I told my exwife I loved her. I asked her to marry me
about 6 weeks later. There are many of us good guys that mean it when we
say it. I know I want another long term relationship with rings. I just
tend to scare the women away by not saying I love you soon enough. But I
feel it is worth the risk as they know I am not just saying I love you
without the feelings.

Later, John

WOMEN CHANGE THEIR MIND ALOT ALSO!

The word love has by no means the same sense for both sexes, and this is
the cause of the serious misunderstandings that divide them
True love is like seeing ghosts: we all talk about it, but few of us
have ever seen one
And one last thing, life has taught me that love does not consist of
gazing at each other with bedroom eyes but in looking outward together
in the same direction

It's definitely a way for them to get in bed with you. There are nice
men out there who actually are looking for a committment. You just have
to find them, and be a little picky.

you are beautiful in so many ways obvious & also hidden.. You are
spiritual, still curious about life, comfortable with your sexuality and
driven to be creative or at least enjoy creativity in your life. You
would enjoy the colors and smells in a great flower garden, or the
starry starry night. You will know that if I am quiet it's all about
contentment with you. And you will know that my sideways glance your way
is saying I want you. You are intuitive and powerful and I know it, and
love that about you...


should be simple to find her....

VERY NICE BILL

if they not getting along as he thought they will, he can change his
mind.