Topic: Serious
Jacqueline's photo
Mon 07/13/20 06:40 AM
Hi I’m Jacqueline single mom 40 years old my daughter is 14 years old I like mostly outdoors swimming camping hiking and spending time with my daughter my favorite color blue and red looking for a serious relationship please NO GAMES

NotPay4Play's photo
Mon 07/13/20 07:28 AM
Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here.

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Mon 07/13/20 05:29 PM
Hi I’m Jacqueline single mom 40 years old my daughter is 14 years old I like mostly outdoors swimming camping hiking and spending time with my daughter my favorite color blue and red looking for a serious relationship please NO GAMES

Okay.
Seems you've billboarded a simple profile here.

These are the forums...You've got plenty of room to elaborate, plenty of space to tell people exactly what you're looking for, what that looks like, what you contribute to that, roles, expectations, etc.

What do you mean by "serious?" I mean what you posted is kinda vague.
It's basically "x & y trigger my pleasure zones."
What is "serious?" Just an activity partner to wear a lot of red and blue, go with you wandering outside overnight, swimming, and spending time with your daughter?

What are your experiences with maintaining or contributing to how you define a "serious" relationship? Do you believe you are automatically/inherently capable of (however you define) a "serious" relationship? Why?

Are you focused on the end goal? What's the process you see happening, if any.
How long emailing? How long phoning/texting? What do you need to know/feel before meeting?
Exactly what behavior or information do you look for to get you to knowing/feeling like you want to meet?

Also, can it be anyone? Men? Women? A certain age? Income level? Amount of free time? Are there any physical requirements? Mental? Emotional? Social?
How far away are you willing to date?

What do you see is ultimately the purpose of the "serious" relationship?
Is it all about the emotional "love honor cherish," until the tingles go away?
Do you want kids? Are you expecting future expansion of your professional life? Planning on going back to school and get advanced degrees? Or just kinda exist for each other?

It would probably help you to really focus on details.
I mean when you look for a job do you just post a resume that says "my favorite uniform colors are red and blue. I really like spending time at a computer, and in the field, and lots of time off to spend with my daughter. I'm really looking for a career!"

If you were building a house would you send your architect "I like red and blue, I like nice views, easy egress to the outdoors, and plenty of space to play with my daughter. I'm looking for a home!"

If you were baking a cake would you like the recipe to read "Use some red and blue frosting, hope you like it light and fluffy and really sweet," and then no ingredients, or oven temperatures, or folding procedures?

I could understand that since profiles tend to have a limited amount of space.
But, here you can go nuts, let it all out.
Please, feel free to expound.



Chu's photo
Wed 07/15/20 11:46 AM
Hello

Novak Flamur's photo
Wed 07/15/20 11:48 AM
Hi I’m Jacqueline single mom 40 years old my daughter is 14 years old I like mostly outdoors swimming camping hiking and spending time with my daughter my favorite color blue and red looking for a serious relationship please NO GAMES

okay

arman's photo
Wed 07/15/20 12:53 PM
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Domingo 08's photo
Wed 08/05/20 01:01 PM
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