Im curious to know what is society's "NORM" for relationships as I am newly single and am rebuilding myself to be someone's true soul mate, but what does that look like, tell me EVERYTHING please and thanks :-D

Wonderful.


Which "society?"
The one tearing down statues?
The one that lives on social media?
The one that just works 9-5?
The one that is arming up and protesting against other armed protestors?
The one that's mega rich or super poor?

Seems the only "norm" anymore is "don't diddle kids, and don't be violent."
Anything else you try, you're going to find support from some and rage from others.


How could anyone, other than maybe your actual soulmate, tell you how to be a random persons soulmate?
Seems kinda like asking "Hey, random person on the bus I've never met before. What do you think my perfect career is," or, "I'm thinking about getting my career going. I don't know what that is. But exactly what education and skills will guarantee success?"

Other than that, if you're rebuilding yourself, why would you want random strangers to tell you who you should/could be?
I mean what happens when someone tells you to be something and you're incapable of doing it? Is that going to cause you to feel depressed and start hating yourself for who you can't be, or others for having a standard you can't live up to?
Meaningful information is not only valuable, but comes with a heavy burden of responsibility.