Well I kind of like someone...and I thought they liked
me too.
We have never IM'ed. We just e-mail and post-It is how we have
been communicating.
Mostly it is in a joking manner.
I have gotton to know this person over a period of time- just by their word's. Found many things I liked about him.
I get the feeling though- that it is'nt- LIKE- on the same level.
Guess I took the joking too seriouse.
I told this person I was starting to like them.
I don't know- I guess I exspected a bit more of a response.

(And no I am not gonna name them.)
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I know in the past I have sat here and watched alot of people.
Started liking someone- just to watch them get snatched up by
someone else.

I guess maybe I should learn to play football and just tackle
them???

I really don't think I know how to go about this dating stuff. Espeically since it is distance. Guess I am just
feeling dissapointed. Starting to wonder if anyone would truely want me. Thanks for letting me vent...Yes I'm whinning...
(inserting pouty face emotioncon here)
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I Know how you feel. I'm talking to someone on here-but see that they've added all these other perty single mommies to their "friends list" and still meeting others...the purpose of this site is to meet someone, so why is it that when people do meet and hit it off they keep looking for something that "might be better"--it sucks

i could teach you a thing or 10 about tackling someone,, im good at it,,lol

I know how you feel >.> You're not the only one, don't worry about it. Why, me and this girl from Utah just started talking last night and she really interests me.. the only difference is that it's a mutaul 'e-crush', lol.

As far as in your situation, just keep talking to the person online, maybe get their phone number so you can talk on the phone. That's what I did with this girl i met from Utah last night, now we're going to talk on the phone later tonight.

It's just little things like that to get started. It's really different with the whole long distance scene because you never truly know what to expect from the person in reality.

I don't know what else to say, i'm sorry >.> But i tried.

Thumper you causing trouble again lol. well i been talking to mine for almost a month an a half now on here when he can but mostly on the phone now going well too but i got wait a month before we see each other

dont make me break out my firehose

Bad THUMPER

yeah,, and you expected anything diffrent?????

Nah I should know ya by now lol I be careful I got someone to protect me now

I have been e-mailing this one on and off for months...

Thumper- firehose?
Canubetheone-congrats! Hope your meeting goes well...:
flowerforyou:

yea so so true

its a run away joke,, yeah my firehose,, and my indian pump,, its all kinda fun teddy

thank ms teddy he suprised me an called me last night oh thumper i got something for that fire hose

jsut be good to me,, had to go to the hospital last weekend,, dont wanna this weekend

Whoa!! Wait, wait, wait wait on that one.

I happen to be here looking for my "special woman", but I have FREINDS here too. I have met some really great and FUNNY people! And so I ask them or they ask me to be on thier "FREINDS" list.

So one of two things can happen..the best of the two is to don;t get all bent out of shape just because a person TALKS to someone else. If I like a woman in more than friends, I have no problem in TELLING them so! But its not going to stop me from having FRIENDS! Lots of people here have a GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR..and I LOVE TO LAUGH!

Hell, read some of my threads I post in..you will see I just love good conversation and a LOT of LAUGHTER!

As to you MsTeddy...just TELL THEM! We are not in the 3rd grade and why beat around the bush? (no pun intended..I happen to LOVE bush too )

But seriously, lets be ADULTS here and try to act like that too.

awwww thumper me be good aren't i always lol

Teddy -- I have found that it's difficult sometimes to really get a handle on someone using posts and e-mail alone -- phone is a little better, but nothing really matches up with meeting in person for the experience of "sheer reality."

Communication is SO important, but so many really don't have the skills to do it very well; it all breaks down, and you're left feeling you did something wrong somehow.

I really think that it's best to take your time when getting to know someone here -- my experiences on other site have made me very cynical, but the truth is that the best girlfriend I ever met is someone I met on a dating site -- but overall, I tend to think it's best to err on the side of caution, as they say.

It's tricky. If you see someone who interests you, there's nothing wrong with striking up a conversation. But you do need to be careful, because there are a lot of nutjobs out there.

Disappointment is normal in a situation like this, but remember, the next time might be completely different! There ARE good people here, and maybe some of them live closer than 897,000 miles away....!!

LOL I'm not "bent out of shape" I'm still looking for friends too. It just hurts that he's still meeting and taking people out.

mom2,, why dont you go and see a few people and see if he likes it. that either will make him wanna solidify the relationship or make him run cause hes not the only one that "might" be doing booty calls, not saying that you are, just saying make him think