Hi all. Is there any way to not participate in Mutual Matches? I accidentally clicked "yes" on a guy and I have no idea what the profile said lol and Mutual Matches doesn't seem to help anyway, because they're mostly not what I'm looking for. Anyway to deactivate Mutual Matches? I thought I saw it somewhere...

just click view all and the delete button... its that simple!
just make sure you wanna delete them before you do.. cause they are gone for good!

you can just not do it, it's not like their gonna delete your profile if you don't use it. hardly anybody actually uses it as it is.

At this time you can not deactivate MM, but you can delete any mutual matches you have made by deleting them as they show up in your home page.

If you don't participate, people can still pic you but they will not show on your page unless you pic them. The hassle is that you keep getting emails saying someone wants to meet you. Just don't go to MM and they can't meet you. I have been pushing for an optional feature in settings that would let you pick if you want to participate. On you show up, off you don't and people can't choose you.

No answers yet but then they don't do anything around here unless more people write and ask for it. Pleanty of people want this but so far I don't think many of them have written the owners of the site.

I don't like my pic being displayed since I will not answer. So the answer would be no. You can't tunr it off. But you can change your email prefs, but that works for the whole site and then other people on the site might not be able to contact you. Goes in circles.

Hi people...I keep getting emails that say someone wants to meet me at Mutual Match but I have not rated them yet,,,but when I log in I can't figure out where they are or how to rate them....Its not to the point to where I'm pulling my hair out yet,,,but I kinda would like to figure it out...

Thanks Sara