Topic: how should i deal with this problem?
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Mon 12/17/07 08:05 AM
clay man dont freak just keep lookin i know how hard it is i really do..

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Mon 12/17/07 08:06 AM
You gotta respect yourself to get respect. Demand the same respect to you that you give to someone else. If they don't give it to you, walk away.

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Mon 12/17/07 08:07 AM

Don't burn any bridges, stay friends, but go out with someone else.


I am with this... cheating is always complex

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Mon 12/17/07 08:07 AM
k.

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Mon 12/17/07 08:08 AM
First I have to say hi (((((((((((((((buttons))))))))))))))))

Fire,

Life and love is a journey that was built just for you (custom built). No one else will have exactly the same reaction to it as you will have, or the same experiences that you will have. This is what makes part of love so great.

Let that life force inside of you shine, and watch how love comes along. Remember that love (and life) comes in many different ways, but somehow these 2 "life & love" are the same. When you have peace with life you will have peace with love.

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Mon 12/17/07 08:28 AM

good point in fact the ironic thing is she was using this site while we were together and she still is to my knowledge she also found some on on here and went and saw him twice.


I met someone on here, I am happy with him and would not cheat on him. I do believe she is cheating with the one she met on here, but not everyone on here who has met some else on here is here to cheat. I come here to read the jokes, I have a friend I talk to on here, and if I decide to I put my two cents in somewhere. He trusts me too, but I don't give him reason not to. And if she cared for you the way you do for her, she wouldn't cheat either. Put her to the curb and leave her alone. Look how many times she has done it to you now. Do you really think she will stop? Once a cheater, always a cheater.
You can do so much better.
Good Luck. flowerforyou flowerforyou

PMS


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Mon 12/17/07 09:06 AM
Just Say Hi....Then Say Bye...

There are Plenty of Fish in this great, big sea....

If your gonna get abused, mind as well be in bed....

Send her packing, whacking, thacking....


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Mon 12/17/07 09:11 AM
MOVE ON! Stop letting her have any control over your life. It sounds like your of convienece, She's with you untill someone elets comes along! I don't have to tell u NOT COOL! as someone eltes said she has no respect for you! She will get some respect if you cut her out! I mean this sincerely!

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Mon 12/17/07 09:25 AM
I disagree. I think you should stay with her. And you should breakup and get back together 20 more times. And I think you should let her cheat on you 15 more times. I feel you should let her treat you like a doormat and walk all over you and drive you insane with her crap on him behavior so you can get a lesson in humility and unconditional love for her. DUDE ARE YOU CRAZY???? Don't tell me that that's what you wanted to hear! Straight up- three up, three down, end of an inning. Its over. Move on. You're articulate. You're intellegent. Don't subject yourself to abuse. No pu$$y is worth that aggrivation.

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Mon 12/17/07 09:32 AM
I just wanted to use the words pu$$y and crap in the same post. Thanks for giving me a reason.

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Mon 12/17/07 09:39 AM

ok theres a girl i was dating she cheated on me 3 times we broke up and then we got back together. nows she ended it agin i dont know why. i need some help i am conflicted stay friends or just forget about her completly?brokenheart explode


WAKE UP!!!!!! once a cheater always a cheater...the first time you should of walked but to let it happen three times.
Come on now the SEX cant be that good that you are going to let her treat you like SH1T.

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Mon 12/17/07 09:48 AM
Put her on the tv show cheaters so I can watch her and know what she looks like so I can avoid her ass. Better yet just message me her username so I can avoid her. Please. Don't let others get suckered.

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Mon 12/17/07 10:06 AM
Here's a chance to let the deeper part of you rule. It's a lesson in life more than anything.

You already know the answer. Your not waiting for the answer, the answer is waiting for you.

mg

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Mon 12/17/07 10:12 AM
darkfire, why would u want to keep doing this to yourself? I understand that you were together for a long time, and that you love her, but there is no use in letting her disrespect you like that. There are too many good people in this world that won't cheat and will treat you right for you to just settle on someone who has proven time and time again that she cannot be faithful to you. I would just cut her out of my life if I were you and try to move on. Best of luck to you.
Beccaflowerforyou

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Mon 12/17/07 10:32 AM
Easy.......you say "Have a nice life" and move on........do not keep this girl as a friend....since she cheated on you 3 times, is this the kind of friend you want???? Me, my friends are the only people I can count on in this life.....

With "friends" like that, who needs enemies???noway noway noway noway noway

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Mon 12/17/07 10:37 AM
this reminds me of that family guy episode where cleveland and loretta get a divorce after quagmire has an affair with loretta.

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Mon 12/17/07 10:40 AM
That's a funny episode.

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Mon 12/17/07 10:42 AM
yeah i know. im gunna go watch some family guy on alluc.org now.

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Mon 12/17/07 10:47 AM
dude, she cheated on you. I would never stand for that. When I let girls do me wrong, I was a victim. Now that I don't even care because I realize that there are billions of people in the world, it seems like I literally am a magnet. Taking advice without understanding doesn't work though. You have to KNOW and ACKNOWLEDGE that there are millions of women out there in order to kick back and not be a victim. Sorry that it happened. Usually i t is always the real nice and sweet people that this happens to.

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Mon 12/17/07 10:50 AM
Edited by mikey2373 on Mon 12/17/07 10:50 AM
cheating shouldn't even be as big of a deal as it is, unless you're married. I think its a forgiveable mistake. unless you're married...huh

oh by the way, it seems like this chick dont really even like you so move on