to all dating and/or in a relationship, consider the Earth as you know it.4 season.
starting with summer, they can do no wrong.everything is full bloom, blinded. then you have fall, where the leaves begin to fall away, becoming bare.Their flaws become shown, their true character is starting to show. Then we ignorantly foresake the winter, it's unbarable and often uncomfortable. Their true identify can't be no clearer. there's no more leaves to conceal all that you are underneith. No where to hide, the jig is up. we then see clear through everything and sometimes we don't like what we see. But as I was taught by a wise man, if we hold fast, apply wisdom and learn, we can continue into the spring with not the same kind of harvest as before. If we just stop accepting just being alive and desire to live, we can learn to spring into another chapter of life with our other half and become that much stronger to plant a better seed to stand firm when we encounter winter again. This is how relationships/marriages last a life time. Everything is right in front of us to grow and devlope into that which you say is the best, but in reality, it's just a reflection of you, as one.