Ok, so I am 22 soon to be 23 I have a great job that I make very good money at, I have an amazing family and phenominal friends, A cute house that I bought with my sister and a car or two.. I am pretty, fun to be with, easy going, loving, not needy, girly but not prissy.. and I love to go to sporting events and have cold beer every now and then and I am really happy . BUT! I can not find one guy that is decent.. I dont know what the hell is going on or what is wrong with me .. can anyone offer any insight as to why these guys seem so great and then turn out to be a trainwreck of problems once I give my heart and try to get involved?

~~~Tammy~~~~

I have found with the past guys I have dated they have all been with cheating girls and then their insecurities about that comes off onto me.. I have never cheated in my life although sometimes i wish i would have.. and for the person who said I have a certain type that is not true.. I dont always go for looks but as it turns out the best relationship and the love of my life that did have ended up dying serving our country.. maybe I am just looking too hard trying to find someone that makes me feel like he did or maybe Im just not ready to start dating again.. i dont know