Why can't women believe there are faith ful men out there? Were not all
dogs just to the one were with! Is that unreal?

most woman put all the blame on every guy for the one guy who did hurt
them ya know? keep looking you'll find her you just got to earn her
trust first :)

i hope that i will learn from my mistakes

DUDE, ITS WOMEN LIKE THAT THAT RUIN IT FOR WOMEN LIKE ME...I REALY HATE
TO SEE IT WHEN A GUY GETS TREATED SO BADLY HE BECOMES BITTER,KEEP YOUR
HEAD UP AND SHE WILL SHOW UP

good guys get treated like chit .all grils want a good guy but the take
the ones that are better lookin or something like that and the men treat
them like chit , i guess thats life lol

I am not a hopeless romantic...I am a hopeFUL romantic! No, not all
women are users. But as stated, women like that give gals like me a
rough way to go. I learned some time ago that I cannot convince a man
that all women are not evil soul-suckers. In fact, I don't try to
convince anyone of anything! If you like me, come stand next to the
fire. If not...

...NEXT!

I was bitter towards men for a long time after my marriage,but I know
that all men are NOT jerks (just my ex.lol)bt I have also learned that
most men go for the model type women ,and that makes me bitter, I am no
model but I have 2 disadvantages my way , one im tall (6') and that I am
no model,but I know that I am not ugly and I have a heart of gold , and
the ones that dont wanna get to know that then its there loss,cause I am
very happy for who I am ...

Breezy,

I, too, am quite comfortable with my own company these days. I don't
feel the pressure to remarry as most women my age do, and that
self-assuredness and personal comfort level apparently make me all the
more desirable. No one wants a "needy" partner.

its not that all women are users.they just all expect something.women
expect alot from a man.a man has to eaither be wealthy,given the white
picket fence,security,attention,love,coplimentents.job security,a big
penis,good in bed.they just expect alot.now if you have any of those
things then yes you are being used.meeting that certain someone is hard
if you do not have any of theses qualities.

WELL ME PERSONALLY,IVE NEVER CARED FOR MONEY,PENIS SIZE,AL I ASK FOR IS
DEVOTION,SOME OF THE GUYS IVE BEEN WITH HAVENT BEEN LOOKERS BUT IT ISNT
IMPORTANT TO ME HOW THEY LOOK,ITS HOW IM TREATED,LOVE AND BE LOVED

No not all woman are.Some time the men are.Just like me.I tread men so
good.You will fine the right one.Just keep looking.I am.

I don't think all men are dogs, I believe that are good men out
there---you just got to know where to find them. I do believe that some
women go for men with money but I also believe that some men go for
women with money. Lets face it, you are always going to have someone out
there that uses people...theres no way to avoid it.
I myself have been in both relationships...with money and without money.
I prefer the relationship to where you didn't have as much money. When
you are in a relationship and there is money involved...he is always an
arse. When you both have to work and put your money together...the
relationship is based on love and that is something that money can not
buy!!

good reply unsure.nicely said

When you have been cheated on and done very dirty it just takes time for
a woman to be able to trust again trust me I know this it happened to
me.

I gotta agree with you cowgirl. It takes time to heal a broken heart.
I'm sure once that's over a person can give their entire selves.

I am more of a giver I treat peolpe in a maner I would like to
be treated in retirn. A user is a missleader thats dangerouse playing on
peoples emoyions

No more than all men are user's.

i don't think that people realize how many messed up people there are
out there and just because you found two or three don't mean they all
are.

women---men.. we all use each other for one reason or the other..

Personally, I am not a user of a man because I am a very independant
woman. However, because I am stablized and mature
in my life... I feel sometimes
that my independence scares men away I don't use
men for nothing, If I break up with my man: sad:!

I keep it movin' and I refuse to penalize my next man for my
last man's foolishness! I must
say that I learn from my past and I am cautious about making the same
mistake twice... I hope you understand my
reply.... If not, In a nutshell I do not, and
will not use a man! In closing, YOU CAN NOT BE
USED BY SOMEONE--- YOU
WILL HAVE TO "LET" THEM USE "YOU"....Remember that!