Topic: Any suggestions for my profile
Julian82's photo
Sat 09/14/19 01:13 PM
Here for any ideas or suggestions.. be respectful please..

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Sat 09/14/19 01:51 PM
Some of your interests would help you a lot , good luck

Poetrywriter's photo
Sat 09/14/19 03:05 PM
As Freebird said, listing interests will help.If you do not want to take the time to list them, the ladies will not want to take the time to message you.

mzrosie's photo
Sat 09/14/19 03:45 PM
ok I took a look in your profile and here goes...

Firstly, I offer my condolences for the loss of your wife (it says in your profile you are widowed)

Photos: you have several photos so that's good as it is one way of showing you the person in the photos

Interests: no interests worth mentioning? you are a chef, you must like cooking. do you bake cookies as well? Women love cookies .. and cake.. we love cake.

About You: All it says is that you don't like racists (^5) and pretentious people. For me, that says a lot... I hate racists too so there.. omg do I ever! But this makes your profile too negative. Say something positive about you like.. you are ready to date again (since your wife had passed) and be in a loving relationship and maybe get married again and have dozens of children. (ok don't freak out, I said maybe).

Your title says "Just passing through" but you are looking to date. ooh red flag for women as it could mean you are not really seriously looking. Maybe rephrase it to "Here to stay" or maybe the sappy "Looking for you"

ok good luck
happy waving

Julian82's photo
Sat 09/14/19 10:00 PM
Thanks Freebird.. I appreciate it!

Julian82's photo
Sat 09/14/19 10:01 PM
Makes sense.. Thank you poetrywriter..

Julian82's photo
Sat 09/14/19 10:04 PM
That is very helpful and all those points are definitely what I will work on now.. Tgank you so much MzROSIE.. and thank you for your condolences. Yes, she passed in an accident a few years ago and I'm trying to see if its possible to move on now.. Thanks again for all of your responses.. I really appreciate it.. :)

mzrosie's photo
Sat 09/14/19 10:09 PM
You're welcome, Julian. Sorry again for your loss and I wish you all the best.
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Itsamrendra1's photo
Sun 09/15/19 12:39 AM
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