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okay soo there is a guy that i like .. and knows im going through alot and doesnt even seem to care ... but he says im doing things im not and i dont understand it ... is this normal? or is it really just me ? and advice on how to calm down would be great also ...
~Betsy (broken hearted and lonely) |
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oh yeah and i also dont wanna slip back into depression or have bad thoughts...
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if he doesn't seem to care and he's making accusations why do you still like him?
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if he doesn't seem to care and he's making accusations why do you still like him? long story short... i trusted him and i think im now stupid lol |
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To help you calm down------>Beat him, run him over and bury him in the woods:)
As to why he thinks you are doing things you are not, I have no idea. If he doesn't trust or believe you...I would ask if you have given him a reason not to. If you haven't..what kind of friend is this??????? |
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i'd say he's already showen you that he's not really worth the time, but what do i know. i don't know him, you, or the situation at all but but if it were me in your shoes i'd just go on my merry little way.
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if he doesn't seem to care and he's making accusations why do you still like him? long story short... i trusted him and i think im now stupid lol Sounds like life lessons to me. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. |
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To help you calm down------>Beat him, run him over and bury him in the woods:) As to why he thinks you are doing things you are not, I have no idea. If he doesn't trust or believe you...I would ask if you have given him a reason not to. If you haven't..what kind of friend is this??????? lol thanks i always need advice from a friend... |
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if he doesn't seem to care and he's making accusations why do you still like him? long story short... i trusted him and i think im now stupid lol yeah i guess ill give up and continue on ... so whos my next contestant ? hahaha Sounds like life lessons to me. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. |
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If your being open and honest with yourself, then I would worry about it being you. Sounds more like there's a problem with trust on his part and if he don't care. Your wasting your time on this one. Or it could be you like the the drama
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If your being open and honest with yourself, then I would worry about it being you. Sounds more like there's a problem with trust on his part and if he don't care. Your wasting your time on this one. Or it could be you like the the drama thanks yeah were arguing now lol |
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hmm well to me I have found that if someone you are interested in, talking to or dating, starts to accuse you of things you are not or have no intention of doing, I often find its the other party that is guilty and the guilt is building up and turning into paranoia.. I would let him go.. not worth ur time, you can find someone way better cause trust me that little feeling you have of something just not being right turns out to be true in the end and u will kick urself in the ass for even getting involved.. been there done that!
Tammy |
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hmm well to me I have found that if someone you are interested in, talking to or dating, starts to accuse you of things you are not or have no intention of doing, I often find its the other party that is guilty and the guilt is building up and turning into paranoia.. I would let him go.. not worth ur time, you can find someone way better cause trust me that little feeling you have of something just not being right turns out to be true in the end and u will kick urself in the ass for even getting involved.. been there done that! Tammy yeah i get what ur sayin .. thanks |
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hey i just noticed.. u live in the next town over from mine haha small world huh
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but he says im doing things im not and i dont understand it /// explain what you mean.. |
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hey i just noticed.. u live in the next town over from mine haha small world huh true that lol |
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accusations can be a control thing. "prove to me that
you're not <fill in the blank>" - which could mean that they want you to jump through hoops endlessly... take a few deep breaths, hang with your friends here or elsewhere for a while, then date someone new who is cool and less sCreWeD uP - lol  i do jump through hoops btw, but it is just showing off 
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Betsy, sounds like the guy is an asshole and isn't worth your time. Sorry to hear you're going through a rough time. I hope things get better for you soon.
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Betsy, sounds like the guy is an asshole and isn't worth your time. Sorry to hear you're going through a rough time. I hope things get better for you soon. thanks |
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accusations can be a control thing. "prove to me that you're not <fill in the blank>" - which could mean that they want you to jump through hoops endlessly... take a few deep breaths, hang with your friends here or elsewhere for a while, then date someone new who is cool and less sCreWeD uP - lol i do jump through hoops btw, but it is just showing off thanks 
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