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Topic: abusive behaviour.
eskimo_nell's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:42 AM
Hi i just need a little advice a guy contacted me here on the instant messenger straight away i knew he was not my type so i said to him you not my type sorry good luck in your search to then he replied your a f**king ugly b***h anyway and you'll get nowhere on here. i'm not gonna mention his name but people say they want honesty and no games but when you be honest with them you get abuse.
Has this happened to anyone or am i just the lucky girl its happened to?

thumper95's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:46 AM
some people front saying they know what they want,, but when they get it it hurts their feelings when its not what they want, so they take it out on you.

oldsage's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:47 AM
Report him, we don't need that sort of stuff.

Nickinolosers's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:48 AM
I just keep my IM turned off

and only turn it on to chat if I know the person

thumper95's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:48 AM
and nell,, i know i aint the only one gonna say this to you,, your are a far sight from ugly dear,, damn what that idiot thinks.

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:54 AM
You know you aren't ugly. People say vicious and evil/mean things to hurt you when THEY are the ones feeling rejected. Sad to say they resort to that .. but know he is the one comin' up short sweetie. Not you flowerforyou

eskimo_nell's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:56 AM

and nell,, i know i aint the only one gonna say this to you,, your are a far sight from ugly dear,, damn what that idiot thinks.


awwww! thanks happy

can i just say as well i didn't think straight away he was not my type i new after all these weird questions here was asking.
ohwell

thumper95's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:57 AM
dont stress what a moron says. he was probably after a peice of ass, and you look like you have more that a little class. so you go find you a decent fella and have fun doing it

eskimo_nell's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:57 AM

You know you aren't ugly. People say vicious and evil/mean things to hurt you when THEY are the ones feeling rejected. Sad to say they resort to that .. but know he is the one comin' up short sweetie. Not you flowerforyou


yeah i will i'm sorta new on here a meer few weeks was a shock thats all cos everyone on heres been so nice and friendly.:smile:

eskimo_nell's photo
Wed 12/12/07 05:59 AM

dont stress what a moron says. he was probably after a peice of ass, and you look like you have more that a little class. so you go find you a decent fella and have fun doing it


i will :wink: thankyou

musclehd's photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:02 AM
aww your too cuteflowerforyou


never would i talk nasty to you.. unless we were.. nevermind.

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:04 AM

I just keep my IM turned off

and only turn it on to chat if I know the person


I have had something similar happen...I too keep my IM turned off. Good advice from Sage...report that guy Nell!

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:08 AM

Hi i just need a little advice a guy contacted me here on the instant messenger straight away i knew he was not my type so i said to him you not my type sorry good luck in your search to then he replied your a f**king ugly b***h anyway and you'll get nowhere on here. i'm not gonna mention his name but people say they want honesty and no games but when you be honest with them you get abuse.
Has this happened to anyone or am i just the lucky girl its happened to?


I'm really sorry that happened to you...Yes report him and pay not attention to what he says, obviously someone who has been jilted or something flowerforyou

Enya's photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:14 AM
NELL,
I SEE MOSTLY EVERYBODY HAS SAID WHAT I'D SAY....
REPORT HIM!
WHAT A LOSER!
YOU ARE TO PRETTY/CLASSY LOOKIN` FOR RUDE REMARKS LIKE THAT!explode

eskimo_nell's photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:15 AM
Ok i have reported him. its not a nice feeling reporting people. definintley blocked him though.frown

no photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:17 AM
Eskimo, u are a beautiful, classy lady, who ever this jerk is, he needs a lesson in manners, which I would be VERY happy to teach him, pay no attention to dumb a**es!!!grumble devil

musclehd's photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:17 AM
yea sometimes you have look out for yourself. verbal abuse is more damaging then physcial..

eskimo_nell's photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:21 AM

Eskimo, u are a beautiful, classy lady, who ever this jerk is, he needs a lesson in manners, which I would be VERY happy to teach him, pay no attention to dumb a**es!!!grumble devil


mmmmmiiiikkkeeeeeeyyyy :heart:

glad your on today.....it's ok mikey he's on my side of the pondexplode

eskimo_nell's photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:22 AM

aww your too cuteflowerforyou


never would i talk nasty to you.. unless we were.. nevermind.


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Inkspot's photo
Wed 12/12/07 06:22 AM
Nell,

Keep in mind that there are people out there who cannot take rejection. They react with a mounted offense, lashing out at whom ever was the subject of the rejection.

Pay no attention to this type of person. You are a very lovely young lady. Hold your head up high sweetie. You are totally worthy of being here and making yourself available for any GOOD man who catches your fancy.

Good Luck!

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