Topic: Why do older woman know wat they want?
JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:44 PM

i dunno i just afraid to even be with a young girl now, i mean sure they need guidance but i dont want to be let down and have my time wasted no more stupid sayings as in "i really dont know wat i want" or "im not ready"



Guidance? LOL, I have my mother and aunts for that...

You're meeting the wrong women. I'm not a young 'girl' I'm a youngER woman.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:45 PM

I don't think that has to do with age, it has to do with maturity and honesty. You can be "older" and not know what you want, or you can totally know and not be willing to be honest about it.


never had a older woman tell me she dont know wat she wants
and i know most just want to settle down and be truly taken

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:47 PM


i dunno i just afraid to even be with a young girl now, i mean sure they need guidance but i dont want to be let down and have my time wasted no more stupid sayings as in "i really dont know wat i want" or "im not ready"



Guidance? LOL, I have my mother and aunts for that...

You're meeting the wrong women. I'm not a young 'girl' I'm a youngER woman.


i dont meet tha wrong women
im just sayin some younger girls want dat guidance

others can be mature and all but still dont want to take dat risk

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Tue 12/11/07 10:52 PM


I don't think that has to do with age, it has to do with maturity and honesty. You can be "older" and not know what you want, or you can totally know and not be willing to be honest about it.


never had a older woman tell me she dont know wat she wants
and i know most just want to settle down and be truly taken



Trust me, I have friends like this, I call them fickle. They have no idea what they want. So it's not just younger women.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:54 PM



i dont meet tha wrong women
im just sayin some younger girls want dat guidance

others can be mature and all but still dont want to take dat risk


What kind of guidance are we speaking of here? LOL, no offense, but I could say the same about your age group, that all men under 35 are scared to commit and have no freaking clue what they really want.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:54 PM



I don't think that has to do with age, it has to do with maturity and honesty. You can be "older" and not know what you want, or you can totally know and not be willing to be honest about it.


never had a older woman tell me she dont know wat she wants
and i know most just want to settle down and be truly taken



Trust me, I have friends like this, I call them fickle. They have no idea what they want. So it's not just younger women.


well to my view it is
or how i come across them
not goin to be fooled any longer

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 10:57 PM




i dont meet tha wrong women
im just sayin some younger girls want dat guidance

others can be mature and all but still dont want to take dat risk


What kind of guidance are we speaking of here? LOL, no offense, but I could say the same about your age group, that all men under 35 are scared to commit and have no freaking clue what they really want.


bout them wanting to know why guys their age hurt them
and things they never knew before and yea most guys dont want to commit cause they are cowards,but not all
and im one of those guys

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Tue 12/11/07 10:57 PM




I don't think that has to do with age, it has to do with maturity and honesty. You can be "older" and not know what you want, or you can totally know and not be willing to be honest about it.


never had a older woman tell me she dont know wat she wants
and i know most just want to settle down and be truly taken



Eh, I think relationships are just hard in general. Most people aren't willing to give, they only want to take. So where do you find these people? Online?

Trust me, I have friends like this, I call them fickle. They have no idea what they want. So it's not just younger women.


well to my view it is
or how i come across them
not goin to be fooled any longer


CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 11:00 PM
i dunno wat you said katy it isnt showing
dont use too much quotes=P

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Tue 12/11/07 11:02 PM
LOL, sorry. Eh, I think relationships are just hard in general. Most people aren't willing to give, they only want to take. So where do you find these people? Online?

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 11:07 PM

LOL, sorry. Eh, I think relationships are just hard in general. Most people aren't willing to give, they only want to take. So where do you find these people? Online?

not hard for me, i know how to have a relationship
and i am ready yet we guys are still labeled as in "guys are not ready and guys dont commit"
well bull****!
I DO COMMIT!
just sick of girls who i think are worth it and really are not
and online and offline

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Tue 12/11/07 11:08 PM

bout them wanting to know why guys their age hurt them
and things they never knew before and yea most guys dont want to commit cause they are cowards,but not all
and im one of those guys


Wow... there are really girls that stupid? Guys my age hurt girls my age b/c they're dumb, inexperienced, and have no idea what it takes to have a relationship. Hence the reason most guys my age have never dated me... I had that group figured out a LONG time ago...lol. I honestly don't think I've dated a 21-23 y/o guy since I was 18...

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Tue 12/11/07 11:10 PM
So what are you looking for exactly? A long-term relationship? Marriage? I think most young people like to date around for a while before committing, maybe that's why you are having trouble, if you're looking for something more permanent.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 11:10 PM


bout them wanting to know why guys their age hurt them
and things they never knew before and yea most guys dont want to commit cause they are cowards,but not all
and im one of those guys


Wow... there are really girls that stupid? Guys my age hurt girls my age b/c they're dumb, inexperienced, and have no idea what it takes to have a relationship. Hence the reason most guys my age have never dated me... I had that group figured out a LONG time ago...lol. I honestly don't think I've dated a 21-23 y/o guy since I was 18...


sadly in Canada Ontario, Toronto..
yup
i say its pretty much Hell here for girls
only a few are true blessing angels

so you dated older men??!
and yet im sayin i love older women
bigsmile

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Tue 12/11/07 11:11 PM
Interesting, younger women with older men, and younger men with older women. It's all scrambled, LOL

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 11:13 PM

So what are you looking for exactly? A long-term relationship? Marriage? I think most young people like to date around for a while before committing, maybe that's why you are having trouble, if you're looking for something more permanent.


i am lookin for one who wants a true relationship
i dont date, i dont need dat type of madness
if i come across a woman who truly knows wat she wants and actually wants me to be there for her, then i will
and i wont ever leave her since i have tha same feelings for her

i dunno wat else you humans do
but i will not go dat way

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Tue 12/11/07 11:17 PM
I'm sure you'll find it.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Tue 12/11/07 11:17 PM
Edited by JaymeStephens84a0lc on Tue 12/11/07 11:18 PM


so you dated older men??!
and yet im sayin i love older women
bigsmile



I honestly don't consider you older...lol. You're 28 right? Thats the age group I get along with best, around 27-35ish, both men and women. I don't really have much in common with the people my age.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 11:31 PM

I'm sure you'll find it.


have before and maybe again
but older is wat im now pursuing

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/11/07 11:32 PM



so you dated older men??!
and yet im sayin i love older women
bigsmile



I honestly don't consider you older...lol. You're 28 right? Thats the age group I get along with best, around 27-35ish, both men and women. I don't really have much in common with the people my age.


cause your not young young
but other girls who are 18, im old to them
yet some say they want to know me
but sometimes i really dont want to know them