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NO ONE EVER GIVES ME A CARD OR GIFT.
EXCEPT MY 1 NIECE AND 2 KIDS. SO,SHOULD I KEEP BUYING THE OTHERS GIFTS AND CARDS? |
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its not about what you get, its about giving. You shouldn't have to give presents because you feel obligated but because you want to.
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Christmas is overrated. Everyone gets really greedy and the spirt and fun of it is gone. I dont get anyone anything and i dont expect anything from anyone.
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It's not about what you GET in return...
How does giving make you feel? And maybe, if you are feeling unappreciated by the people you are buying gifts for... perhaps make a donation to a charity in their honor... that way, your efforts will be appreciated by SOMEONE, even if the recipient is unappreciative. |
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ahh i maybe so if it makes you feel good.Its never about what other people do or say to me I try to not take things personal.
Its about what I do and how I feel about me thats important. So if you fell good giving then do it |
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NO ONE EVER GIVES ME A CARD OR GIFT. EXCEPT MY 1 NIECE AND 2 KIDS. SO,SHOULD I KEEP BUYING THE OTHERS GIFTS AND CARDS? Hmm interesting question. I'm fortunate, I have a very close group of friends and family. If its a one time type of miss, then consider something might have happened and its about giving anyway. But if you have sent a card for 10 years without getting even a thank you back..takem off the list, its obvious they don;t care. I'll send you a card..just tell me where! |
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its not about what you get, its about giving. You shouldn't have to give presents because you feel obligated but because you want to. i was going to say that exactly. thank you. it is about giving and not expecting, keep doing the right thing |
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its tha spirit of giving
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I'll buy you a gift Enya
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I FELL GREAT GIVING GIFTS
BUT,THEY DON'T COME GET EM` TIL LATER. MAYBE CAUSE MOST OF THEM DON'T CELEBRATE THE HOLIDAYS ANYMORE. |
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Love must be sincere. Do what your heart tells you, not out of guilt.
Nice to see you Enya. I was 'here' the day before your surgery and was worried and praying. Thank God you are here with us. |
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I'll buy you a gift Enya THANKS SWEETY, BUT A SIMPLE GREETING WILL DO. |
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You know.. I kind of felt that way this year.. so instead I donated a bunch of gifts to local shelter and womens homes and I am giving a full christmas dinner to two families in the area instead of giving gifts to the family and friends
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You know.. I kind of felt that way this year.. so instead I donated a bunch of gifts to local shelter and womens homes and I am giving a full christmas dinner to two families in the area instead of giving gifts to the family and friends WOW THAT'S VERY NICE OF YOU! I CAN'T DRIVE ANYMORE THOUGH. |
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I'll buy you a gift Enya THANKS SWEETY, BUT A SIMPLE GREETING WILL DO. Ok I'll send ya an e-card or something. |
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