I'm I insane or is it love? All I do is think about her wishing I can see her. Be there for her. Asking her how was her day. Holding her so softly and never let go. When I do think about her and I do alot I just seem to get lost in in it. Sometimes I get so lost in it I forget to breath.

its not love untill you truly been with her for a while or know she has tha same for you but take it slow

how long have you known her, and in that time period how much have you gotten to know her? Do you think you can live with out her and just don't want to or do you feel like she is the air you breathe and you can't go on without knowing she is in your life?......depending on how you answer these ?'s you are either a-on your way there......or
b-infatuated

its loooooooooooooooove..inless you question it..but you know for sure if your in love cuz u can just say..im in love...

how long have you known her, and in that time period how much have you gotten to know her? Do you think you can live with out her and just don't want to or do you feel like she is the air you breathe and you can't go on without knowing she is in your life?......depending on how you answer these ?'s you are either a-on your way there......or
b-infatuated

Over a week. I seem I really got to know her. Do I think I can live without her? Yes, But I am willing to let her go If that's what she truly want's. But as in my life goes, Yes I would like her to be in my life as a friend. Well I not sure about her being the air I breath but when I see her I seem to lose my breathe.

Hey Nightace....I know exactly how you feel. About 2 1/2 years after my wife passed away I met a lady that made me feel just like you are feeling. There was absolutely no doubt I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, but I wanted to be near her and with her so much, I became 'smothering' without realizing it. Needless to say, that chased her away from (I still miss her to this day).
My point....Be real careful of your feelings, you can ruin things very easily before you even know it!!

Its just gas. It will soon pass.

As love grows it becomes deeper and more intricate with tough challenges, but the rewards are equal to the work you put into it. It is easy to love at first, you meet simple needs of each other. Put her before yourself in all things, then you will know if you truly love her.

I would say at this point in time your in love with the idea of her darling and what could be..........

With her exactly...probably not you don't know her or probably yourself when your around her well enough.......will it ever come mayby given enough time........but no baby i don't think you love her yet.......you love the idea of being in love with her........

when she is the air you breathe and you can't imagine your life with out her but you know you can live without her.......when you don't ever want to let her go but do so anyway......when you feel like everytime she walks away she take a piece of your heart and it makes you smile...........when you know your universe doesn't revolve around her but you want her to be at least one of the planets then your in love.......until then your just entertaining the idea

Every day. I just want to talk to her but I truly don't want to smother her so I just don't but all i want to say is, "I still her waiting. But please don't make me wait to long."

Yeah maybe your right, maybe I am just in love with the idea. But I can imagine my life with out her. But I would really like it if she was. My universe doesn't revolve around her. but I want her to be at least one of the planets as you say

good.......nothing says it won't come give it time nnd don't try to force the issue..........ride with it baby nad if it's meant to be love it'll be the best ride of your life........if not it'll be fun while it last.........I've learned we can't choose who we love but we can choose how hard we love another the key is don't confuse feelings with emotions and don't loose who you are in the heat of it all.........

Yes and everything you said so far is right. But it doesn't make it any easy. So my next question should I start seeing other people or should I give time to see what happens.

ummmmmm dumb ? but are you listening to yourself..........you think your falling for this girl and your asking should you see other people......i think you just answered your original ? darling.LOL

if you think you may be falling for her nad you may love her than NO you ride the ride till it ends and you can look back and say you gave it your best shot............now if she is asaying "hey i want space and to date others" then you by default are kinda shi* out of luck but until then if you both want to give it a whirl and you think you'r falling then no you don't muddy hte waters and bring other fish into your little pond so to speak.......LOL unless like i said you already answered your original ?............

Then I'm going to ride this out. But thank you and yeah I can sometimes be dumb after all I'm a guy.

daring the presece of two heads is in no way an acceptable excuse for the primary one to fail............take that how you like.........LMAO

And it ant I was plainning to wait. But wasn't sure if I should because I know I should follow my heart on this but alot of family and friend's are telling me to just move on so I was saying thank you for the positive on the matter.

Your welcome.........my last post was in ref to your comment about being male nad that being an excuse for the dumb ?..........LOL

i understand how you feel