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Topic: Mutual Match?
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Tue 12/11/07 01:52 AM

Synthetic,

So who are the woman listed under the "New Matches" at the bottom of my profile? Are those just random profiles or woman that have chosen "yes" or "maybe" for my profile?


Thats another thing im not quite sure on still sorta new here myself but.. ive noticed that most of the pictures that show up down there are the ones youve chosen yes to.. and I think the ones that you see that you didnt choose yes to are the ones that said yes to you and you had chose no to thats the only thing i could figure out of it if that makes any sense lol

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Tue 12/11/07 01:54 AM

Awesome I get it now and I have 1 mutual match. Unfortunetley she does not live in the same state :(


Hey someone to talk to is something to .. it helps deal with depression big time.. and noone better to talk to than someone that has shown some intrest in you for who you are.. know what i mean.. and you never know sometimes things just happen :) anyhow glad you figured it out and good luck happy

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Tue 12/11/07 02:20 AM
Good luck with it. I'm not very good with that part of this site. It seems like even if you do match with someone, nothing's said or if a discussion starts, it fades away. Being fairly new to this, I'm not sure if that part gets better or if it's even worth dealing with.

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Tue 12/11/07 02:25 AM
Edited by bryguy1972 on Tue 12/11/07 02:25 AM

Good luck with it. I'm not very good with that part of this site. It seems like even if you do match with someone, nothing's said or if a discussion starts, it fades away. Being fairly new to this, I'm not sure if that part gets better or if it's even worth dealing with.


Well I would think that if you are on this site, then yes, it would be worth spending time speaking with someone. At least for me it is. If nothing is said or the discussion fades or you never talk to that person again, no biggie. There are sure to be more that come along, right?

Even if it ends up being only a friend, I think it is still well worth it. You get to meet so many different people from so many places that you would never been able to do before.

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Tue 12/11/07 02:29 AM
Edited by SyntheticMinister420 on Tue 12/11/07 02:34 AM

Good luck with it. I'm not very good with that part of this site. It seems like even if you do match with someone, nothing's said or if a discussion starts, it fades away. Being fairly new to this, I'm not sure if that part gets better or if it's even worth dealing with.


Well its a tool that helps you meet people.. so its worth the time .. and if nothings being said are you trying to say anything... if not then nothing ever will be said.. and if you have and they dont reply.. well that just means they were not the one for you.. the one will talk and want to know more just keep with it :smile: sometimes you just have to break the ice and say something.. the good things in life are the ones you go look for and make the effort... not the ones that just fall in your lap those good things never happen and if they do they are far and few between..

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Tue 12/11/07 02:40 AM
And if you dont use it thats up to you maybe you have better luck just clicking on someone's picture and trying to talk to them I never have luck that way .. usually never get a response.. at least you know with the mutual match that they are at least somewhat interested because they said yes.. know what i mean :wink:

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